1800please Posted February 6, 2006 Share Posted February 6, 2006 Me and my ex dated for about a year and a half and then we got married in Nov. 2004. This was the happiest time... Well he began telling me our marriage was having problems b/c we would fight constantly and sometimes a little vilent. Well in July 2005 he told me to move out, when i did he said i shouldn't have thats not what he really wanted. then he said he wanted a divorce but he was going to wait a yr. before he filed so i filed and he after the divorce was final that it was not what he wanted. well on christmas day he called (and after 4 months of not speaking to me) and wanted to meet and be friends. so we did and it was like nothing had happened we were great together agian. well we went out a couple of more times and everything was fine. he said that he still loves me as much as he ever did but he's afraid to get hurt agian he said that when im with him he fills whole agian. Now when i call he is to busy to talk with me (out of a job and trying to pay for big bills on odd jobs). what can i do i really love him and would give up everything in order to get him back what can i do to make him want me back... Link to post Share on other sites
niko1999 Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 Go back and read what you jsut wrote, but read it as someone else would be reading it and ask yourself, what would I tell this person? You would probably tell this person that their ex seems to be playing games with them. Your ex seems to be playin games, BIG games. He just wants to be sure that you are still there, still being lonley, still THINKING that you need him. And you dont! Youll be fine without him, and you know it. You have been good without him before. you lived your whole like without him before you met him, you can live the rest of your life without him, becuase there is someone who is going to treat you better than you could ever imagine. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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