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Hi,

I had just met this guy this past Friday at a club. We exchanged numbers and departed from one another. So the club ended and I began to walk out with my girlfriend. As I was walking, this other guy approached me and was trying to get my telephone number. I didn't give it to him. So my friend and I left the club. As I was driving, I got a phone call from the guy I did give my number to. We talked for a minute and out of no where he said "I saw you talking to that guy. Did you give him your number? Do you give all guys who try to talk to you your number? I bet a lot of guys try to talk to you." I couldn't even get a word out. I saw this as possesive behavior.

 

Anyways, he called me the next day. I was hesitant to talk to him, but I did. So we began talking and I put him on hold for a minute. When I came back to him he said very irritatedly, "Do you want me to call you back, because you seem too busy." I could sense his irritatedness and said "No I will call you back." I don't understand why he was irritated.

 

Do you think this guy is possesive? Should I call him back? Please write back as soon as possible. Thanks!

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Sounds like very bad news to me. I'd think calling you right after you gave him your number was a bad sign too, not just asking about the other guy and freaking out about being put on hold.

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Hi,

I had just met this guy this past Friday at a club. We exchanged numbers and departed from one another. So the club ended and I began to walk out with my girlfriend. As I was walking, this other guy approached me and was trying to get my telephone number. I didn't give it to him. So my friend and I left the club. As I was driving, I got a phone call from the guy I did give my number to. We talked for a minute and out of no where he said "I saw you talking to that guy. Did you give him your number? Do you give all guys who try to talk to you your number? I bet a lot of guys try to talk to you." I couldn't even get a word out. I saw this as possesive behavior.

 

Anyways, he called me the next day. I was hesitant to talk to him, but I did. So we began talking and I put him on hold for a minute. When I came back to him he said very irritatedly, "Do you want me to call you back, because you seem too busy." I could sense his irritatedness and said "No I will call you back." I don't understand why he was irritated.

 

Do you think this guy is possesive? Should I call him back? Please write back as soon as possible. Thanks!

 

Duh, do you even have to ask? Hello, you JUST briefly met this guy and he is already starting this stuff. You may be alittle choosier as to how often and who you give your number to.

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LOL its like you just met him, its not his business nor should he care, you gave him your number.. wow its not like your bf & gf, exclusive or anything..

 

I'm sorry but this guy is messed up, its not a big deal that he called you the next day or same day or whatever, but the fact that he said that about the other guy... OK you should have said yeah I do give my phone number to alot of guys, so what?? Its really not his business, really. And if he asked if you get your number asked for alot say yeah do you want me to teach you how to get guys phone numbers ? LOL. Don't take that stuff seriously tho cuz its just gonna make it worse, was he serious when he said all this stuff?

 

The 2nd call was not so bad, i mean if your busy he can call you back later, but like the jealousy call was messed up IMO.

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Holy hell! This guy might go down as the most psycho jealous guy of all time! All he did was get your digits and he's questioning who you talk to, who you give your number to, etc?

 

He was irritated when you had to put him on hold for a minute because he thought you owed him your undivided attention. In addition, the person on the other line might have been a guy (the horror.) If you are foolish enough to continue to answer his calls and continue on to date him, this is what your "relationship" will be like a few months from now.

 

Psycho guy: "Are you wearing lipstick again?! How many times have I told you you can't wear lipstick anymore."

 

You: "I'm sorry."

 

Psycho guy: "That's it. I don't want you to go to school or work anymore. There's nothing but guys there anyway. I'm tired of having to worry about if you talk to guys. Stay at home and clean."

 

Do you really want to be that person? Then stay the hell away from this psycho!!

 

MD

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