LoveisLove Posted February 8, 2006 Share Posted February 8, 2006 Ok, I get it. Men are visual by nature, hence the porn. I accept it. BUT, when is it too much? I know my hubby likes it (ok, what man doesnt?) But I think there should be a time and place for it. For example, we will be watching tv, and he will be on the computer. I can see the reflection of his screen on the Tv so I see him looking at it. I say, "Hon, its 1pm on a Sunday, do you really need to look at that now?" Look at what he says, I am reading the online newspaper. Hmmm....When he gets a second, ANYTIME, he sneaks off onto his laptop to watch porn. Now, I give him sex, almost everyday. He has rated it a 9 out of ten. We are very experimental, have toys, lets just say I will not refuse to do what a porn star would do. (Ok, I wouldnt do 3 some or groups, but you get what I am saying). If I am satisfying his sexual needs, almost always daily (sometimes 2 or 3 times a day) then why the need to sneak off and watch the porn? I dont expect him to not look at it, but why so much if I am giving him what he needs? I am his whore in bed so why does he still need the whores on the computer? Does he think the are prettier, sexier, or more exotic? When is too much, too much? I like porn too but not enough to view it on a regular basis, everyday! This hurts me so much, what can I do to make him look at me and not them? I am blonde, 5'2, 34C, and weigh about 105lbs. Why so much porn? Is he an addict? Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 First of all he shouldn't be rating you on a scale from 1-10 or anything. I think it can become to much when its ALL the time or theres an addiction or if it takes away time, love, respect, commitment from the relationship, etc Link to post Share on other sites
Joe Tex Posted February 9, 2006 Share Posted February 9, 2006 " When is too much, too much?" The answer is simple- when it starts to get obvious that he's too played out to have sex with YOU. Some men can masturbate in the morning and be all ready to go that night. Some have to wait a couple of days. And some actually get to prefer the porn over the real thing, If you notice the frequency of sex with him starting to dwindle down, THAT's when it's too much. Link to post Share on other sites
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