Martine Posted August 24, 2001 Share Posted August 24, 2001 My girlfriend loves my a lot but why she always in a bad temper and yell to me over trivial matters? Sometimes that is not my fault and wonder why she was so furious and always bash me unreasonably. However, she said sorry to me after and she explained that she didn't want to be so crazy but she cannot control herself. As she said that is due to her hormone inbalance. How come will be that??? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 24, 2001 Share Posted August 24, 2001 Sometimes it could be due to a hormonal problem but most of the time anger stems from issues in upbringing. People get angry for only one reason...because things don't happen the way they want them to or people don't behave they way they want them to. If you're with a lady who insists on having things her way all the time, run as fast as you can. Being with someone who constantly has tempter tantrums can make for a very miserable life. Chances are good that as she grows older, she will mellow out. But why put yourself through a lot of irritation and conflict in the meantime. There are just too many stable people in the world who would be great for you without enduring this kind of thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Dragonflys Posted August 25, 2001 Share Posted August 25, 2001 My advice would be that any time she has a tantrum just switch off mentally...just go blank and ignore her. She will get the message that you will not tolerate this crap and will subconsciously remember how you go blank every time she gets silly. I think a lot of these tantrums can be fuelled by an irrationsl need for attention, often due to upbringing. Link to post Share on other sites
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