cplfun13 Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 I am at the end of my rope!! I have given him so many chances, tried so many different things and ways to help in the repair of our marriage, and yet he still can't/won't stop his BS. It is getting so bad now, that it seems that I am not even worth his time to come up with a decent lie.. He has been lying, sneaking, hiding, and covering up internet activity and past partner communication. I have bent over back words to talk to him, and have him talk to me. I have stretched my boundaries to accommodate and support, but all he does is make & break promises and beg me to stay. I feel like I am loosing my mind. I keep catching him and he keeps trying new ways to cover his activities up. This is my second marriage and I love him and don't want another failed attempt at this. I don't want to walk away when the going gets tough, but it is killing me inside... I feel I am loosing my self. Link to post Share on other sites
Just Visiting Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 It's difficult to make a relationship work when there is only one active participant. I commend you for doing everything possible to work through these problems with your partner. Evidently he is caught up in his own demise. He is getting something out of being secretive with his internet activity. You are much more valuable than to receive such disregard and disrespect. I know it is hard to let go of the second marriage but you are not getting anything out of it. Just pain and heartache. How about taking a step back and think of your needs for awhile? I suggest that you do a search on username "red flag rick". He posted back in April & May 2004 and gave awesome advice to various people in regards to relationships. I have been reading and re-reading his posts and they have been eye-opening and insightful. Take care, don't settle for scraps. Link to post Share on other sites
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