potens Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 I just recently broke up with my gf of 7 months, things were going great, but then i started to feel guilty, about what im not sure i never cheated or anything. And i guess i started acting more irrative according to her. One night i was in a bad mood and she made a comment that i percieved that she was saying she'd break up with me if i didnt stop (which looking back was totally out of context) so i got mad and said ok screw it we're done. I felt the same old day-after remorse stuff, the post-breakup sorrows. But it just wouldn't go away like it usually does. That was 2 months ago. Don't get me wrong, i've had a handful of gfs, but this just feels all different. Last month i decided to talk to her about it, clear stuff up, that it wasnt her fault really, that i just screwed it all up, i regret it alot, how i messed up such a great chance to be with a great girl, and i still love her and she said she still loved me. But she talks about other guys, and we still talk and i am like i "used to be". Then she starts going out with this one guy (a far away mutual friend) online about two weeks after we talk. She still says that she loves me even after she started going out with him, and often mentions that they're just "freebying". I just don't know what to do next. Normally I'd just not bother and not worry, but i can't this time. Link to post Share on other sites
chocolate_boy Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 At 7 months you should still be in the honey-moon "in love" happy stage, any relationship that falls down around that time is not meant to be, imho. If it fails that early, sorry to say but I don't see much future for you, better to take it as a lesson learnt for next time. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
skeptik224 Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 I don't necessarily agree with Chocolate Boy. 7 months is plenty of time to know if you love someone and for there to be potential. Often people run away for reasons unbeknownst to them. I wouldn't give up. She's talking to other guys because your actions pushed her in that direction. I say if you really like this girl, don't give up. Freebying - I'd assume - is playing the field and just messing around...that it's nothing serious. Don't give up, Potens. Link to post Share on other sites
Author potens Posted February 10, 2006 Author Share Posted February 10, 2006 I know it is a short time, i've dated around quite a bit and this just all feels different, very different. She said what she meant by "freebying" was he and her are dating, but they can each do what they want with other people when they arent physically together (which will be like once or twicea year becuase of distance). Thanks for the advice Link to post Share on other sites
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