csfong007 Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 If your boyfriend and one of your best girlfriends flirted with each other at a party in front of you, would that bother you? It was nothing physical...just words...about his being her part-time boyfriend, her wanting to share him with me, etc. Thanks for your input. Link to post Share on other sites
incognito Posted February 10, 2006 Share Posted February 10, 2006 absolutely Link to post Share on other sites
Sunshine2003 Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 It would bother me too. My guy shouldn't be flirting with other girls. Flirting is how a person gets to know another person...let's them know they like them...feels out if the other person is open to something...that's what I think. I'm a big flirt, but don't flirt while dating. It's not fair to him (my bf). Link to post Share on other sites
melica Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 there is an art to flirting, and if your boyfriend flirted in a way that said, I trust that you trust me to flirt in front of you, and you truly trust your best friend, he is trying to say "I like her too". If you talk with him openly about the discomfort, without sounding controlling or jealous, he won't do it again. If he loves you. Even if he has an attraction, he is with you. Not your friend. Attractions are normal, but they are shallow. He will respond in your favor if he loves you. I'm hoping your friend is truly your friend? If so, don't worry about it. If not, then write her off. Link to post Share on other sites
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