Author Ariadne Posted July 28, 2006 Author Share Posted July 28, 2006 Hey, You may think you love this man, but in reality, you are not.. Hmm... Something to think about. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
SUMMER 1969 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Its funny, when you think are you in love with someone, when actully your not.. How long did you date this man? Why is it that you feel you are in love with him so much? What did he do for you? Ask yourself those questions.. I am in a bind right now, my guy of One year told me that he does not love me and he will never love me.. I have a choice to either accept the fact that he will not love me and we can take things One day at a time or 2 I can walk away and meet Mr right.. Just try and take the blinders off.. Really ask yourself tuff questions.. I am here if you need to talk.. Summer Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted July 28, 2006 Author Share Posted July 28, 2006 Hey, How long did you date this man? Why is it that you feel you are in love with him so much? What did he do for you? It doesn't matter. He is living with his fianceé and most likely I'll never talk to him again. my guy of One year told me that he does not love me and he will never love me.. Oh no! Sorry. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
SUMMER 1969 Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 Well good luck and I hope everything works out for you.. If you need to talk I am here... Summer Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted July 29, 2006 Author Share Posted July 29, 2006 Hi guys, As I mentioned here, I've had this FWB guy for the past three months. Well...even though the guy is really nice to me and tries to pamper me and take me places sometimes... I'm just so bored with him! I feel like I have nothing to talk about with him. At the beginning we asked the typical questions, you know, where did you grow up, how many brothers and sisters, etc etc... and then stop. Now basically we talk about "the day" and then that's it. With the Denver guy we wanted to know everything about each other and it seemed like there was always something more to learn. Like I'd see a scar on his skin and ask him, how did you get that? Did you fall? And he'd tell me all about it. And it was fun. Well, with this guy those type of talks are pointless. I don't even care really, and even if I asked him something like that just to make talk, he'd say something like, oh, I don't know... sigh... We even went to the beach one day, and we had nothing to talk about all along the trip, is like we run out of things to say. And then at the beach I just read a book . I guess the only good thing about the FWB guy is that I can talk to him about the Denver guy and he listens. But there is not much to talk about about the Denver guy either, since I don't know anything about Denver guy anymore. So I expressed my feelings to him and we decided to "take a break"...he said that maybe after the break I'd want to jump his bones (because sex, instead of getting better with time it got boring too). But I doubt it, because he left the country for a week and that didn't make me want to jump his bones. So, we'll see what happens with this one (but I don't think it'd last much longer), Ariadne __________________ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted July 30, 2006 Author Share Posted July 30, 2006 Hi guys, Well, I remember now why is it that I'm seeing the FWB guy... I get depressed as hell! I haven't seen him for the past couple days and I'm already having a really bad day. I've been crying holding onto a DVD case Denver guy sent me, and having suicidal thoughts. Life sucks, I don't want to be here, a gun would be the fastest, etc etc... Yeah, I remeber now, when he left the country for a week it didn't make me want to jump his bones or anything like that, I just became a wreck. I guess I need the guy. He is a distraction. Better to be bored than desperate. Ariadne __________________ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 30, 2006 Share Posted July 30, 2006 I don't meant to sound harsh, but I think that it's really sad (not to mention selfish) that you're so uncomfortable with being alone that you would use some poor guy for company that you're not even into. What's wrong with just being by yourself for awhile? Facing yourself and your fears is what will make you a stronger and better person. It's not easy, but until you can do that I don't see how you can ever be in a truly fulfilling relationship...with anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted July 30, 2006 Author Share Posted July 30, 2006 Hi, that you would use some poor guy for company that you're not even into. I guess I am using him, in a way. But I don't think he is a poor guy. What's wrong with just being by yourself for awhile? Nothing wrong, but I prefer the distraction. I've been seeing him every day and it gives me something to look forward to in the evening. I do have a good time with him, even though lately it has become a little boring and I'd say it's starting to run on empty. Facing yourself and your fears is what will make you a stronger and better person. I believe I'm a strong person...I'm also very intense and I let myself drown in my emotions. It's not easy, but until you can do that I don't see how you can ever be in a truly fulfilling relationship...with anyone. Well, a truly fulfilling relationship is something I've never been able to enjoy. I'm not sure why that is though, maybe I'm just unlucky, Ariadne __________________ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted August 1, 2006 Author Share Posted August 1, 2006 Hi guys, An update on the FWB guy now. We met on Sunday night and had a great time. I got to hang at his house, had a beer or two, great sex (after the couple days I guess it got interesting). And yesterday I called him a few times and he didn't answer the phone. Something he had "never" done before which was weird. Plus he is an older guy (48) and not exactly into playing games. So he called me last night to dump me! lol He said that he wants to put feelings into the thing but that I'm cold, that he feels like it's not right anymore, and that he doesn't like it, and told me that it was best if we didn't meet that night. He said that I'm still in love with the Denver guy, I told him, I am in love with the Denver guy... he says yeah, but I thought that you'd change. Hmm... And then he said that why don't we stop seeing each other to see how we feel. I miss you already I told him, I want to go sleep with you tonight. He says, no, I'm tired. So the plan (maybe) is to meet and talk tonight... Sigh... well, he's dumped me a bunch of times before, for the same thing, and then changes his mind. It's kind of a weird situation, Ariadne __________________ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted August 1, 2006 Author Share Posted August 1, 2006 Well, He just called me on the phone. Said that he was up till late last night thinking and that he doesn't want to hurt me. And asked me to come over his house tonight. He seemed nice and friendly (not in the dump me mood). Well, he knows how much I need him and how messed up I am. I really go to pieces when I don't see him. I know, not nice, but if I don't have his distraction I hit bottom in no time , so he sort of cheers me up. Argh, I hate this situation, wanna kill that Denver guy grrrr Ariadne __________________ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ Link to post Share on other sites
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