Guest Posted February 11, 2006 Share Posted February 11, 2006 Recently my ex of about 1.5 years broke up w her boyfriend after a serious of events that happened between us around Christmas. I have been chasing her for the past year and now Im getting my second chance. Even though she's broken up with him we still arent together as shes upset by the breakup and we both want everything to be good when we continue our lives together. Sometime I get the feeling like this might never happen but I suppose its easy for me to do that. I have trouble thinking that I am in a deeper state of infatuation with her then she is with me. Shes got this new group of friends abd basically a new life however she swears to me that she wants to be with me and that she can see us getting married and that would be graet... I feel the same. I try to give her her space but sometimes its just so hard. Im not sure what I should do for Valentines. Should I get her something and send it to her? I really have no clue - so please help me it and comment on my situation if you'de like!!! Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 It sounds like you shouldn't pressure her. She probably still needs space and time before fully returning to a new relationship with you. I'd send her a heart-felt note telling her about all the reasons why you are in love with her. Time it so it gets to her on Monday, and acknowledge (in the note) that she you would understand if she still needs time, but should she choose to, you would love nothing other than to see her on Tuesday. Since it is last minute, and you aren't sure what her reply will be, just have all the ingredients ready for a really romantic dinner that you can cook for her at home. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 Thanks, nonmakingsense... We went for a long walk last week and she still stressed that she is not ready which is fine with me. I want to give her her space and make everything perfect this time and Im grateful for the opportunity. Sometimes I just wonder if its really going to happen... Is that far fetched or should I believe everything she says to me as she sais it with such confidence. None the less I think I will take you advice and send her a nice card with a pic and letter. I really feel like thats the extent to which I could take it to - no farther. Anyone else? Link to post Share on other sites
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