melica Posted February 12, 2006 Share Posted February 12, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. It has been mostly hectic, we are both descendants of crappy childhood situations. I want a loving relationship, and I think he does too, but he (and I) do not know how to get it. I believe it is up to me to introduce options. He is worth it. I know he loves me. He is trustworthy. No issues there, which is new to me and I love it. But the bummer is, that he doesn't trust me. (I have never so much as had any interest in looking elsewhere. He is worthy of my devotion and faithfulness, simply because I have so much trust in him. ) We need help. We are suffering everyday, but cannot break apart because of our co-dependant need for each other. If we could just recognize this. and be Okay with it, I think there is hope. Anybody making it work, in a double-trauma relationship? I have searched the internet, but nobody seems to address two people having the same problem. Replies from people like me wanted. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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