Advice needed sorely!

[Angelwolf]

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 9 months now and I'm totally in love with her. However some problems have arose. 1)My best friend used to date her and he's making my life a living hell. 2)Her parents hate a poor farm-boy such as myself. 3)She's always with her best friend (Who is also an ex-b/f and they dated for 2 years) and he is always trying to get her to dump me.

 

I love her with all my heart, but it's getting to the point where everything is just wearing me down. If anyone has any advice on any of the 3 previous problems I'd appreciate it.

 

Heath

[yes]

those are three huge problems buddy ... if i were you, i'd run!

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 9 months now and I'm totally in love with her. However some problems have arose. 1)My best friend used to date her and he's making my life a living hell. 2)Her parents hate a poor farm-boy such as myself. 3)She's always with her best friend (Who is also an ex-b/f and they dated for 2 years) and he is always trying to get her to dump me.

 

I love her with all my heart, but it's getting to the point where everything is just wearing me down. If anyone has any advice on any of the 3 previous problems I'd appreciate it. Heath

[Tony T]

1)My best friend used to date her and he's making my life a living hell.

 

Nobody can make your life a living hell except you. If this guy is harrassing you in any way or causing any kind of chaos in your life, you can either report it to police or get a court injunction barring him from contacting you.

 

How can you call him your best friend if he's making your life a living hell??? You have a very warped concept of friendship.

 

2)Her parents hate a poor farm-boy such as myself.

 

So that's their privilege and you can't change it. As long as your girlfriend is not influenced by their feelings, you have no problem. However, in the long run, most people are swayed by the way their parents feel.

 

3)She's always with her best friend (Who is also an ex-b/f and they dated for 2 years) and he is always trying to get her to dump me.

 

I wouldn't put up with that for half a second. If she's always with her best friend who is also her ex, then she's not with you very often. That makes you pretty much of a fool. I don't think you ought to be a fool.

 

If she doesn't spend a lot more time with you and a lot less time with her ex, then she's not your girlfriend...she's her ex's girlfriend...which takes a lot of load off of you. You actually don't have a girlfriend to worry about.

 

Go find a girl who doesn't present you with all these problems...and especially a girl who cares to be with you a lot more than with her ex. What an idea, uh?