BlahBlahQueen Posted February 14, 2006 Share Posted February 14, 2006 So I've decided to narrow my interests and pursue Steve. Hrrrmmm, normally I would not have chosen the most difficult one because I like my men on a platter (I'm a lazy dater). But there's something about this one that tells me we could be happy. I even made him take the MBTI personality profile test (which is disgustingly accurate) and it turns out he is my ideal match. They are roughly one in a hundred, and if you factor gorgeous into the equation, we're talking one in 5,000. Add in other qualities I require, and the odds go up to maybe one in 20,000. I'd be retarded not to pursue this one. OK, so where do I begin? Well, the reason he's difficult is because unlike my usual, he's a cautious, introspective, reserved, cerebral type and we haven't gotten to know each other well enough that he'd just jump into something with me. As prime breeding stock , he has plenty of options, ya know. I can make a decision fairly quickly as to whom I'm willing to date exclusively, but he's not like that. (Or is he, and was I just a booty call? We had a great long philosophical conversation today online. BTW, lines from the convo which are worthy of noting: Me: Well, if you want to scrutinize me, look up ENFP and ENTP, cuz I'm a cross between those. Steve: What, scrutinize you more? lol Tell me what that says about him. That came out of nowhere.) Yes, I know I'll be under scrutiny. I also know that I'll be judged harshly and that he's not a hopeless romantic. I also know that he'll be looking for an intellectual connection above all else. He thinks I'm pretty, check, he likes spending time with me, check, he knows I'm not dumb, check, we have good sex, check... now, to build on that... Help me and tell me how I should help us get to know each other better. How do you seek to make a *connection* with this sort of person? This is new ground I'm treading, which is why I'm treading lightly... don't want to risk ruining the possibilities... if any of you have insight on successfully dating this type of guy, I would love you for sharing. Link to post Share on other sites
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