lonely4you Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 when this guy and I attempted to date, within a day he tells me that he isnt sure how he feels about me, that he cant explain this feeling..yada yada..A couple days pass and i ask him what are we and he doesnt know, so i drop it. We would just wave if we saw eachother, little things. For whatever reason, he talk to me after class and then he will wait for me after another class. He always seems to send me mixed signals, there is moments i believe he is flirting with me, but i dont want to have any involvement with him. this may be mean, but if i could stop seeing him at school all together i would because ever time i see him i keep hoping something will happen though afterwards i regret the thought.I sometimes will just wave at him instead of talking to him because I cant take it anymore. I hate the fact we pretend like nothing happened and I still have no idea why it occurred in the first place, what made him regret what happened. I never call him, though I think about it, but he only gave me his cell and when I did talk to him he would count down the seconds since he had to pay for the phone. I have completely repressed every feeling I had for him. I don’t know what to really think anymore, like right now I want to talk to him, but I wont call him. . there is still things he does that makes me want to think there is something. I dont even know if i am a friend of his, honestly. Just the other day i was jumbling stuff around and drop my book and i asked him to pick it up and he said just to let you never have to ask. please help me... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 Because men do NOT think like women. They dont ruminate and disect every waking thought and feeling and even if they do have thoughts and feelings they learn to keep them inside. You asking him these things best represents are large portion of the population of men who dont feel comfortable sharing their feelings. Your answer : Think like a guy. Thats the secret to keeping them interested. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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