Imissmybabybad Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 I have ment this guy online. We've ment in a chatroom. After chatting two months. He messages me one day and asks me why I am so nice to him, he said he couldn't understand how someone so pretty could be so nice too. Also that he finds me easy to talk to, enjoys talking to me, and is beginning to really like me. I froze when he said this and all I coulld come up with is I am glad to hear that.This got me thinking that he was interested. some other things I have noticed, are that he is always asking about my son, and bringing up that he would love to have kids someday. He says we would have good chemistry together if only I would let it happen. He is always teasing me, and flirting with cute little baby names like "babycakes". What worries me about this is that he has a girlfriend. I havew asked him why he is with her, and he says it is a comfort thing. He has also brought up my bf quite a bit. I dunno what to think, but sometimes I find he is to sexual when we are talking, and thins makes me wonder if he is just physically attracted. I woul like to know if he is interested in me, or just playing me. Also what other signs do I look for when I chat to him, that would indicated that he cares a lot for me? Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 He's interested. If he talks to you about more than getting in your pants then he likes you more than a f^ck buddy. The problem is you both are seeing other people. I don't see this gong anywhere unless you both decide to make a go of it and break up with your b/f,g/f. You need top talk about what you both want and see if you are on the same page. Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 Well you two have consistantly been in contact for 2 months so I say yeah, he's interested. But right now his level of interest is impossible to truly gauge as this has only been an online connection. People can say or seem anyway they want to when given the leisure to type out an email or IM. You asked if this guy cares for you but what's more important is whether or not you want him to. Is this something you feel is worthy of pursuit ~ and losing your current boyfriend over in the process? If so (assuming it's safe) you need to get some face 2 face time with him. Body language, physical chemistry ~ both very key elements in determining attraction and emotion and both of have been left out of the equation so far. Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Sounds like a wise advice from someone who knows what to say. Link to post Share on other sites
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