Walking away Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Well Bertha Bendover, I am at your command, my tongue is yours to do with what you will. That would be cool, even with the heartfelt laugh at the end. Anyone got any use for a middle aged man with wit and a love for womankind? Tell me there is. Ah sweetheart, there is ALWAYS a good use for men like you..... Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Forget the others Wit! I am only 3 hours away from you, those other chicks are 10 hours away! My mum comes from Dublin! Hold on there LIshy....I've got Irish blood running through MY veins.... Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Forget the others Wit! I am only 3 hours away from you, those other chicks are 10 hours away! My mum comes from Dublin! I have never come in Atha Cliath! If thats your pic in the avatar, I knew you were too pretty to be anything other than Irish!! Woohooo!!!! Fair play hun! I aint in Dublin though, waaaaaayyy out in the sticks! Link to post Share on other sites
cal gal Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Well Bertha Bendover, I am at your command, my tongue is yours to do with what you will. Cool Wit, That is the best offer I have had recently... wish you were a bit closer.... how far do you think you could stretch that tongue???? Link to post Share on other sites
cal gal Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 de Lishy - I too am a bit irish but just happen to live in the sunny part of the world. Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Cool Wit, That is the best offer I have had recently... wish you were a bit closer.... how far do you think you could stretch that tongue???? oesophagus, lower abdomen, womb.... how far do want it to go? Spreading makes it go deeper!! Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 So which of you ladies would like a little more Irish in them? Link to post Share on other sites
cal gal Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 oesophagus, lower abdomen, womb.... how far do want it to go? Spreading makes it go deeper!! How far? wow ... I need it to be here - now! he he Can you stretch it that far? Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Oh be still my beating heart! Ladies, I am not selfish....I was, until very recently an OW. That means that I am used to sharing.... Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 How far? wow ... I need it to be here - now! he he Can you stretch it that far? Ah well colleen I don't think so.... That would make me unfaithful, and I couldn't be having that now could I? Link to post Share on other sites
cal gal Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Ah well colleen I don't think so.... That would make me unfaithful, and I couldn't be having that now could I? Don't know wit- could we? Seems I mentioned something to you earlier about groveling though... hmmm you can still lick me honey... he he Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 I DO enjoy sex with the OM. THAT is the problem. I enjoy it too much with him and not AT ALL with my husband..unless I'm fantaziing about the OM. I suppose there is a tad bit of fear of abandonment with the OM..even though years ago when we had an A I was the one to end it.... SO you and your OM are over? Not together at all anymore? I'm confused... If you two still are together i think you need to divorce your husband. And also he needs (YOUR HUSBAND) to be tested for STD's. Godforbid if you gave him herpes or something...(Meaning, if you don't show symptoms, he could still have picked it up from you.) That is, unless you used protection at all times with your OM. Sorry to sound harsh but I don't know what you're looking for? Support? To be told it's OK to do all the things with the OM and not your husband?? Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Can anyone else relate to this? I only let my OM go down on me and I absoultly WILL NOT allow my husband to. How messed up is that!. My husband loves to go down on me and asks all the time. We (me and the hubby) used to do that before we had our child but now I only want my OM to do that. As if that wasn't perverted enough, I only let my OM suck my breasts too.....go figure! Hmm ... well, yeah I can understand why you want one particular man to have sex with you and not another. Sex isn't sex isn't sex. The person involved DOES actually matter. It just happens that in this case the one you want to have sex with isn't the one you're married to. I can't imagine that's so rare. You do mention, however, that it all started after you had your child. Do you think there is a reason there..? I've never had kids, so I can't really comment on this, but I'm sure there must be stuff on this somewhere... going off sex with your H after having a baby. I don't think you're getting much response on here because the question is mixed up with having sex with your OM. Best of luck anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Well, since I don't have sex with my husband and only MM I cannot answer that. Husband and I have not had sex in over a year!!! TOP THAT!! Hello scarlet MM and his W haven't had sex in almost 3 years (ish). Given the amount of sexless marriages, and the amount of affairs... you would think that this scenario was much more frequent than we're all encouraged to believe. Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 He has no interest in me and I have no interest in him. Many, many, many things led up to this. We don't even go through the motions anymore. We are merely sharing a house right now and don't even sleep in the same bed. I know for a fact he is not having an affair so who knows what he is doing for sex. The same thing has happened to me in two past relationships. The first one there was no sex for 5 years (in a 9 year R). We just grew apart. It wasn't even mentioned. The second one, once the sex stopped I knew it was over, and decided to actually mention it! So we agreed to live together as housemates from that point till we found other people. Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Cheat on my Om with my husband!! Oh now make me laugh! I can see the humour (well, who couldn't?), but you know, I don't think the OW board is a place for people to come for an hour's amusement when they're not providing either information or support. These relationships are difficult enough without this kind of thing. Link to post Share on other sites
scarletletter Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 The statement about "cheating on my MM with my h" was meant for humor only...just to lighten the mood in here a bit. Sadly enough, I do feel that in some bazaar, screwed-up way. I am honest about what I say on this forum and sometimes that gets me into trouble, but I do want feedback in a way that I know I'm not the only one who feels the way that I do. MM and W have been in a huge argument over the past couple of weeks. He has said things that he shouldn't say to me about her. I just don't comment on them and I have actually hoped that they don't end up hating each other. The fact is that I love him and there is not a darn thing that I can do about that now. Another fact is that I do not love my husband in the way that I should and he does not love his wife, only in the sense that she is the mother of their children. We both have the same problems. It is a terribal situation that I am sure is not going to get better any time soon, however that does not change the way that we feel about each other. Does he still have sex with his wife? I'm not sure, I don't ask. I know if it happens that it is not often or enjoyable. From what I understand she doesn't need or like sex at all anymore. I know that is what "they all" say, but I know him well enough to know that he is telling me the truth. I know he was truly heartbroken when she decided to treat him as a platonic room mate, they did go to counseling and then both gave up. It's not a game, its not meant to entertain people by silly comments, it just happens. Link to post Share on other sites
scarletletter Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Sami D, I seriously thought I was the only one that did not have sex with her husband. Its not because of MM, it is because the attraction and the need between the two of us is GONE. Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 The statement about "cheating on my MM with my h" was meant for humor only...just to lighten the mood in here a bit. Sadly enough, I do feel that in some bazaar, screwed-up way. Actually, I don't think there's anything bizarre or screwed-up about only wanting sex with the person you're emotionally close to. Link to post Share on other sites
tweldy Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Why post this? I can't imagine you don't already know the answer. Are you just looking for support or are you really interested in the topic of why you're willing to do certain things with a lover that you're not willing to do with your husband? I'm not judging you, to my knowledge such wisdom has never been granted to me. However, I'm seriously concerned that you're asking a question in a veiled fashion even on an anonymous message board. Have you fallen into such deception that you are no longer honest with yourself? Link to post Share on other sites
Chump64 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Sami: MM and his W haven't had sex in almost 3 years (ish). Yeah, and my butt's a size 2. Link to post Share on other sites
lolax Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Can anyone else relate to this? I only let my OM go down on me and I absoultly WILL NOT allow my husband to. How messed up is that!. My husband loves to go down on me and asks all the time. We (me and the hubby) used to do that before we had our child but now I only want my OM to do that. As if that wasn't perverted enough, I only let my OM suck my breasts too.....go figure! i can relate to that 100% ive done things with my mm, that i have never done before!! i used to hate sex,,,really hate it..now i cant get enough! i used to think sex was:bunny: dirty........no more its great...hes great and i love it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brianschick Posted February 22, 2006 Author Share Posted February 22, 2006 Tweldy, I posted b/c I wanted to see if there were other MW who were feeling the way I was. No, I am not trying to fool myself...I hate thinking about it but..I obviously just don't love my husband and need to divorce him. I have told him I think we should divorce (months ago b/f the affair) and we both cried and then nothing was done after the discussion...no therapy, no further discussion. I dont pretend to have all the answers I just wanted to know if anyone else was in a similar situation. Link to post Share on other sites
castle26 Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Sami: MM and his W haven't had sex in almost 3 years (ish). Yeah, and my butt's a size 2. hey chump, are you using your spy equipment on sami? because you seem to know so much about her life. Link to post Share on other sites
scaredinlove Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 I have done things with my MM that I had never done before.Had sex in places I had never had before. Also in The last two years i haven't had sex with my husband more then two times.An My MM hadn't have sex with his wife in 3 years. I guess marriage isn't about sex.... Link to post Share on other sites
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