AltplanB2 Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Its funny that ive heard the same advice over and over again and i cant seem to act upon it. All the questions and pain builds and yet at the same time, i know they will only hurt me more if i try to contact her back. Ill figure this out, i hope. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Ill figure this out, i hope. Having been in the same sad state (or almost), I can say you will. Just hang in there and try to learn the positive things an experience like this teaches you. Many people focus on the negative things and get bitter and cynical. If you can come out of it learning the good lessons, which should take more time than you may have patience for, you'll be ten times stronger for the next girl and 10 times more likely to succeed. I think it's a little cheesy to say things happen for a reason. But I do look back at all the tough times I've been through and can say that, as miserable as it was, I'm kind of glad. I wouldn't be nearly as strong now. I can find reasons why the tough times were good for me. Just keep going. You'll see. Link to post Share on other sites
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