pookiejones Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 there's this guy that i like, obviously. we are both in university. he and i just became friends two months ago. before new years, he invited me out with his buddies and we all went to a club. we spent the whole time there together, laughing, holding hands, lots of fun flirting. i left for new years, and when i came back we resumed the flirting and hanging out. lately, however, he's been distant. we dont hang out as much and there is always a tension between us whenever we do hang out. people have picked up on it. does he feel rejected because nothing happened with us or does he just not like me anymore? should i say anything to him about any of this? Link to post Share on other sites
cal gal Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 Of course, speak with him! Good communication is only going to allow you clarity about what is going on. Take what he says at face value, as men tend NOT to sugar coat things like women do... If you ask him, then be willing to just listen to his response.... oh ya and watch his body language - that will tell you alot as well... Link to post Share on other sites
Author pookiejones Posted February 16, 2006 Author Share Posted February 16, 2006 how do i broach the subject, without making it weird? Link to post Share on other sites
cal gal Posted February 16, 2006 Share Posted February 16, 2006 In a flirtatious non-threatening way, or else he will tell you nothing... but see it more as a confrontation (generally men hate that). Link to post Share on other sites
Author pookiejones Posted February 16, 2006 Author Share Posted February 16, 2006 he's going out with is friends tonight, should i invite myself along? Link to post Share on other sites
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