guest Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 I've been with my guy for almost 8 years now. We have a great relationship, but his family can be a problem! I won't go through all the scenarios over the years, but the latest one is truly bothering me. I am not sure how other siblings are, but my guy's sister (she is 2 years older than him) calls him too much...so much, that I am started to get weirded out by it. First off, she is over his house a few times a week with her son, so they already hang out a lot. But she calls his cell phone all day, even if she saw him that day. Here is the latest example. On his day off, he went out to lunch with his dad, the sister and her son. Fine.....I was able to spend time with him from @ 4:30pm-9pm that night. Within that time frame, she called his cell phone 3 times! It's never about anything important! It's about nothing, just a "What are you doing?" and she'll tell him what she's doing. When we are together on Sundays, she calls @ 4 times during the day to see what's going on! At first, it didn't bother me that much. After a while though, it started to piss me off. Once we were in a store looking for house stuff, and she called, and they were on the phone the whole time we were in the store! She asked him what we were doing, what were we looking for, what we were going to do afterwards, when he would be home, etc. I might as well have been there by myself! When we go out to eat, she calls and interrupts us, while we are in the car, and when we are doing absolutely nothing! It's almost as though she is the "other woman." Do I have the right to say anything? He doesn't see anything weird with it and welcomes her phone calls. I know it's his sister, so I don't want to start anything over family stuff. But at the same time, I would think he would think it's weird if my brother was calling me @ 4 times a day! Or am I overreacting? Link to post Share on other sites
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