Holiday to spend with g/f cancelled -I'm really worried-

[Mariobros]

Kinda long read sorry!

 

 

Ok so girlfriend who lives about 42 miles away from me was going to have me over for the winter break out of school here in Georgia. I was planning to stay 9 days with her. We were going to hang-out and talk and do other various things together. But my mom suddenly decides I can't go. Yesterday she claimed I could not go because of a shortage on gas money.

 

 

But eventually She found a way around that.Then when I got home from school I asked her when are we heading to my g/f's place. She told me that She isn't taking me today. So I call my g/f but she's at the doctor so I told one of her sisters that I would not be coming over today. Then my mom said today after I asked her "What time are we going tommorrow?".

 

 

She states that I could not go because im sick (Just went to the doctor yesterday and they told me my lung functions were down). Then I tell her that I can bring my medicine with me to my g/f's but then she starts coming up with all these excuses like "Your a boy and she's a girl I have to be over there when your over there" Which made no sense at all. Then she started saying bad stuff about my g/f and her mom like how their house is dirty and how her mom is lazy.

 

She say's all this even though she is always saying how nice and good people my g/f and her family are. Me and my g/f were waiting all week for me to come over. Since we didn't get to see each other on valentines day we were excited to be together for the holiday.

 

So now I'm here at my boring house in my room. My g/f called when she got home about 2 hours ago and I told her that my mom won't let me come over for the holiday. So after I told her and she kinda sounded surprised but kinda dissappointed. So she told me she will call me back later because her little brother needed her.

 

So its been 2 hours and she has not called back. I'm wondering if she is really sad about this because I know I am. But what im really wondering is

is this really going to damage our LDR? I'm pretty sure she is really sad since I can't come over to see her and hang-out with her and her family. We both are going to be home schooled and she is 16 and I'm 17.

 

 

I met her back in Jan early this year and we were good friends for about 1 month before I asked her to be my g/f last saturday. We met each other when we both were in the hospital in Jan so how we met was pretty unique. I usaully see my g/f about 2 times a week and we are really happy when we are around each other. But now im really sad now that I won't see her this week and next week since theres school after this week so that's 2 weeks I won't see her. So I must know if this will damage our relationship with each other.