Devildog Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Isn't it funny how mean and nasty people can be just to avoid their own feelings of guilt? Link to post Share on other sites
Mariella43 Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Hi Lishy, WOW - what a guy eh? Sounds like there's alot of anger. Since this man is so explosive and angry - you need to maintain calm at all times when you have to deal with him. He's spouting out obscenities and saying hateful things because he wants you to hurt like he hurts. Keep reminding him that the two of you have a child together and at all times you must put that child first. Keep all arguments focused on him - don't take accountability. Just calmly ask him "Why are you saying these horrible things? Would you want our child to see you acting like this or overhearing your conversations with me?". Good luck my friend - you sound very wise and level headed which is what's desperately needed when he launches grenades at you! Link to post Share on other sites
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