masaki1085 Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Here's a unique one... There is this girl that I worked with at a day camp last summer. I thought she was pretty cute and had a really nice personality, but I really didn't get to know her that well when working with each other. I'm the pretty shy type--the usual circumstance of these sorts of things. Also, I started dating another girl at the end of last summer, which would have impeded any notion at the time to try and get to know this girl a little better had I been interested, in which I really wasn't at the time. A semester went by. I think I added her to facebook.com (a myspace.com type deal for college students) over that semester. And over the Christmas break, I saw her working at a Macy's and I stopped to have a little conversation with her. It was brief, mostly about work and such. At this time, I was about two days away from breaking up with my girlfriend from the summer and fall (in a matter totally unrelated to this at all... and we did break up), and during my conversation with her, I couldn't help but notice how attractive she was and how I liked her personality. I think if I had been single at that moment, I would have asked her out for a cup of coffee or something or asked her to hang out sometime. Maybe I should have anyway. Anyways, now. I haven't been obsessing over this (I am not like a stalker or anything), but the thought crosses my mind every once in a while when I see her picture on facebook.com. I could probably live the rest of my life and it would not phase me either way if I tried to get to know her better, but a part of me says that I should not pass over any of life's potential opportunities (even if it is just a chance to get to know a new friend). The problem is that although she lives around this area, she goes to school three hours away from where I live. Perhaps I could simply start talking to her, as I have her IM name. Should I try talking to her on IM? How would I start the conversation? Do you think this is even worth it? What do you think? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
dsgb Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 If I were you I would go after her anyway I felt comfortable. If you feel comfortable IMing her then you should IM her. When you start chatting w/ her just let it flow from your heart, but be smooth and catch her interest. Good Luck Man!! Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts