just cos i'm separated doesnt mean i have the plague

[RecordProducer]

It always makes me sick when people care what their FRIENDS think of their relationships.

[Art_Critic]

Sadly, it's very true. I've been told by two different guys this past week that they're not interested in expanding their social group. They have enough friends, so either I know what I want or I dont. I'm not very familiar with this dating scene, but to me, becoming friends with someone is pretty important. And I'm not for a ONS either, so I'm just SOL.

 

DG.. You just need to give it some time..

If the guy isn't all about dating someone that is in a seperation situation then he isn't the right guy for you .. Next..

 

Time.. one day you won't be seperated .. you will be divorced and your marriage will be behind you.. for good

 

[dgiirl]

AC, you are right. I know. I was initially venting. I realize it's his loss and we're not compatible. C'est la vie! I'm going to take a break from this whole dating thing because it's exhausting and I'm clearly not ready. Maybe I'll be ready next week or next year, but for now I'm taking a break.

[dgiirl]

CRAP! I got some mail today, and when I noticed the from address was my lawyer I got really happy thinking finally my divorce papers are here! (I think that's a good sign that I'm moving on). Unfortunately, it was papers from the province declining my application for a birth certificate and requesting more information which i totally dont understand. Crap crap crap. They certainly had no problem taking my money tho. So, it's going to be atleast another month or two before the province gets my birth certificate if they accept my new information, then another few months for the papers to be filed and blah blah blah. I JUST WANT A DIVORCE!!