Timbero Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Hey whats up guys. I met this girl about 3 years ago in school. We never really spoke. Untill this past summer we really hit it off. As i got to know her better. I start to like her. Now i have fallen for her. And i really want here and shes the only thing i think about. We hung out once and she told me that she has a boy friend. They seem to be super happy. But i dont the guy is for her. When her boy friend is arround she acts really weird and mushy with him. The moment he leaves she starts flirting and making passess. I asked her if she wants to hang out and she says of corse she would.. I dont if i should tell how i feel. or if i should let them be. Or should i make a move. Or hang out with her alot and make it obious that i want her. Help. What should i do... Link to post Share on other sites
melbourneboy Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Dude I would Leave her alone and just Be friends with her. Obviously she loves her Boyfriend and i know if my girlfriend was the one flirting with u and u were trying to get down her pants i would be wanting to snap your arms off, so i rekon u should just leave her alone. i dunno just my opinion Link to post Share on other sites
THX2000 Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Hey whats up guys. I met this girl about 3 years ago in school. We never really spoke. Untill this past summer we really hit it off. As i got to know her better. I start to like her. Now i have fallen for her. And i really want here and shes the only thing i think about. We hung out once and she told me that she has a boy friend. They seem to be super happy. But i dont the guy is for her. When her boy friend is arround she acts really weird and mushy with him. The moment he leaves she starts flirting and making passess. I asked her if she wants to hang out and she says of corse she would.. I dont if i should tell how i feel. or if i should let them be. Or should i make a move. Or hang out with her alot and make it obious that i want her. Help. What should i do... Wow. Sounds a lot like my ex-gf and me. She loved me when she was with me and anyone that would give her attention when I wasn't there. You know the answer to this question before you even asked it. SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. Is sticking your nose in his and her business worth taking a beating over? That's probably where that kind of stupidity will end up and you should know that. Find a girl without a boyfriend that isn't an attention whore. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 20, 2006 Share Posted February 20, 2006 Hey whats up guys. I met this girl about 3 years ago in school. We never really spoke. Untill this past summer we really hit it off. As i got to know her better. I start to like her. Now i have fallen for her. And i really want here and shes the only thing i think about. We hung out once and she told me that she has a boy friend. They seem to be super happy. But i dont the guy is for her. When her boy friend is arround she acts really weird and mushy with him. The moment he leaves she starts flirting and making passess. I asked her if she wants to hang out and she says of corse she would.. I dont if i should tell how i feel. or if i should let them be. Or should i make a move. Or hang out with her alot and make it obious that i want her. Help. What should i do... Oh man, you need to get away from her. She has NO intention of being with you! She is happy with her boyfriend (which is why she does PDA's - Public displays of attention) and she knows with you, she can flirt and gain good energy from that. It has nothing to do with whether or not she has feelings for you. I think she knows you like her and want her. She is enjoying that attention and messing around with your feelings. DO NOT make a move on her. She has a boyfriend and that's just a s***ty thing to do. If you like her as much as you say you do, then back off and let her be. Seeing her happy with her boyfriend should be a BIG RED FLAG to you that she isn't interested in a relationship with you. And don't ever settle to be 'the guy on the side...' Ever! Find some girl who is single and deserves all YOUR attention and is willing to give it back to you. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 these situations are truly complicated and honestly it isnt worth the time. Usually in the end, it doesnt turn out the way you had hoped it would. i've been there in the past...and just recently there was one that grabbed my attention, who turned out to have a bf also...which i decided it wasnt worth the effort. however it's a known fact that some women (including men) cheat on their SO at the drop of a hat. I notice people usually settle into relationships until a better catch comes a long, if they think its worth the risk they go for it. But i tend to believe if a woman cheats, the relationship is bound to crumble regardless. But experience as taught me not to bother with these types of women. A) you have to make double the effort to chase her. B) she's the gatekeeper to where this all goes. C) if she chases you, you are on your own terms but dont expect anything on her end to change, not yet anyway D) if she cheats on her bf w/you, what guarantee is there she wont do the same to you? E) there are other single women out there in the sea who will give you less of a hard time. F) if she wants a relationship with you, make it clear she has to break up first. G) if you want to date her, dont get attached, date others at hte same time im not going to tell you what to do, im just giving my 2c. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted February 21, 2006 Share Posted February 21, 2006 Hello ? You want someone who waits until her boyfriend leaves the room and shamelessly flirts with you ? Is that the kind of girl you want ? Link to post Share on other sites
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