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Hello

 

I'm really good friends with my ex (I guess you could call her that we dated for a few months). We stayed friends but only really talked and hung out in our college classes and a few times studying where she invited me to join her. Now she graduated and moved to a different state and we are talking online every day (which she started again). She's asked me if I'm seeing anyone a while ago and yesterday told me that she thinks I still have a crush on her just out of the blue. I still had a little one when she was still here but friendship was way more important so it wasn't a big deal.

 

Once we started talking online everyday (a lot) my feelings are getting stronger again. I told her that I had a crush on her (when she asked) and told her I know that we both want to be friends so that where we are. She said that was well put. She really likes talking to me and we really have a close friendship and special names for eachother and stuff. I'm not sure how she feels...she has said before that I am an awesome guy and all of that...but she has also said that we are two different people, ect (she had a big crush on a guy here before she left) so I have just focused on friendship which is cool.

 

I know we both want to be friends but I'm not sure about more than that. I would give it another shot but I'm not sure about her. I don't know if it would work with the different state situation or if we should try again. I'm thinking that we should stay close friends now and just see what happens...take it slow and not get too hopeful about something more. I really like her as a friend and someone to talk to and I'm sure she does too...its a lot of fun!

 

Any opinions on where shes coming from (why is she asking these questions) and what do you think I should do?

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