Basic Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 What's the worst thing you've done to others? What's the worst you've done to yourself? I verbally trashed the competion once. He was slime anyhow, I just over stated the truth. I once arranged for the competion to be sent out of state for a week. This guy was slime too, but I was unethical. The worst thing I ever put myself through was pretending to be interested in a nutty political movement. The girl was a member of this unpopular group. She was ignored, isolated and worse by mainstream people. She fell for me hard, and I always felt guilty about it. In each of these examples I was sucessful in "getting the girl". Your turn. Link to post Share on other sites
JayKay Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Oh gosh, what kind of shameful things do I feel like posting about... Well, there was this guy who really really really liked me years ago. I mean, he was in love. He told me. He had dreams of us having a future. We dated for a bit but he just didn't do it for me. He was very upset when I broke up with him. I told him I needed freedom and to sow some wild oats. He said, "I wish you could just call me when you feel the need to 'sow oats'...why does it have to be with people you don't care about and who don't care about you?" He basically offered to be my 'booty call' guy if I had the urge. Well, one evening I took him up on it. I'd had a lot to drink and was in the mood. I called him up and said, "Hey, why don't you come over?" He was there in about 15 minutes flat. I basically f****d him, then rolled over and went to sleep. I woke up in the middle of the night and said, "You really need to go home now. This was just for sex. That was the agreement" He left. He called me for days after that and I kept saying, "If you want to be the 'wild oats' guy, you can't be expecting me to act like your girlfriend." I was very cold. The same scenario played out a few more times and I finally said, "Look...you obviously have too many feelings about me for us to do this anymore." Hmmm...but I think I might have slept with him one more time after that. It was selfish and mean on my part. If you're in love with someone you shouldn't offer to be their 'booty call' and then hope they'll fall in love with you. I mean, he was foolish too. But I look back on that and I really could have chosen the higher road. He was just easy and available and safe. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Basic Posted February 23, 2006 Author Share Posted February 23, 2006 Hi Jaykay, Seems like you were straight up honest with him. Link to post Share on other sites
JayKay Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 Well, yes and no Just because someone offers to let you 'use' them doesn't mean you should use them I knew in his heart of hearts, he was hoping I'd fall in love with him. It was wrong of me and I could see how much I hurt him. Link to post Share on other sites
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