DewMountinMix Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Ok, me and my gf broke up about 2,3 weeks ago... She started seeing this other guy, who happens to be one of my friends.... She still calls me everyday to talk... sometimes we talk about our relationship and she says she still wants to be with me, but she has feelings for this other guy too. At one point she was going to get back together with me, about 4 days ago.. but then her new bf said I would just dump her later on, cus he's been through the same experience before.. which I wouldn't but she seems to think he's right.. we still talk everyday and I was wondering... is there and chance that we will get back together? Should I just move on? Should I initiate NC? Its hard because she says a part of her still loves me and I don't know what to do. Please Help. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DewMountinMix Posted February 22, 2006 Author Share Posted February 22, 2006 Also, any advice you have on getting her back would be much appreciated... I mean, I still love her so much, and I want to be with her. Thanx Link to post Share on other sites
NTB Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 dude if she loved you she wouldn't be seeing your friend!! i think your her back up if things don't work out with your friend then she will coming running back to you. move on and do NC.......date a girl who will really love you or at least like you enough not to date your friends Link to post Share on other sites
TravelLight Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Question is, do you really want a second chance? She's not playing fair. If it was a game of poker you'd throw your cards in and walk away. If you really want a second chance be clear to her about your position without being emotional, walk away and cut contact completely. If she loves you like she says she'll come running. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DewMountinMix Posted February 22, 2006 Author Share Posted February 22, 2006 Thanx for the advice... Its just so hard because I love her so much, and we were together for almost 4 years. I just wish I could win her back somehow. Link to post Share on other sites
salmagundi Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Your friend sucks, by the way. What happened to the man's code? Going out with your friends ex 2 weeks after the breakup is bad. Him talking her out of getting back with you is f*cking vile... Link to post Share on other sites
Author DewMountinMix Posted February 22, 2006 Author Share Posted February 22, 2006 Yeah, its safe to say that we are not friends anymore. Update on my situation: Well, She called me today before she went to work. I have plans to hang out with this other girl, and when she asked what I was doing today, I told her that. Well she flipped out and started to get really angry and jealous (At first she kept telling me "Whatever, go **** her. Have fun while I'm at work, bla bla"). I asked what was wrong and why she was so pissed off. she kept saying "Dont worry about it, it doesnt matter anymore" at first, but she finnialy told me she was talking about our relationship and kept asking me "so I guess its really over?" and i told her that she was the one that decided that. Shes really upset over it and I wanted everybodys opinion on what it means? Do you think she'll ask to get back together or is this just a phase of jealousy that will pass? Link to post Share on other sites
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