demonspawn Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 hello all my ex and I broke up about a week and a half ago. We planned to meet last sunday to talk about things, but that sunday she called me up and had a lot of housework to do(had to help her mom remodel their bathroom and such). I told her about meeting tuesday evening and she seemed kind of hesitant to agree since she works 9 hours or so in the morning on weekdays(doesnt get back till about 6pm or so, and she did tell me shes really free on weekends). Well it is now wednesday and she didnt call me at all yesterday, so now I wonder what I should do? what it be good to call her say on thursday and just say if we can wait till the weekend? I would really like other some form of advice other than NC I know ill be getting. Thank all, much appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
salmagundi Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Granted, she's being a flake. If she really wanted to talk to you, she would make time. If she really wanted to talk about things with you she would meet you after a 16 hour workday. You probably would, but then, you want to talk to her. But she doesnt want to talk to you. What you could do is call her up, guilt her, pressure her basically force her to meet you to talk. I mean, if you think that would work. Of course, once you have her in front of you i dont know what you expect her to say...after all, she doesnt want to talk to you. A better bet would be telling yourself "gee, I guess she doesnt want to talk to me...but thats fine cause, WTF, we broke up, right?" I mean, if there is anything left to talk about, it wont do any good to do it before she is ready. So... ...Go NC. And when she wants to talk, she'll call. And then you say sorry but I've got...oh I dunno...a goldfish pond to clean or something... thats what I think, salmagundi Link to post Share on other sites
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