figgurinoutlife Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 My friend and his girlfriend broke up about a month ago, it was my friends choice to break up because his girlfriend was mean and abusive. My friend still stays at their apt. while looking for another, but they are not dating or sleeping together anymore. Basically my friends now ex-girlfriend is pissed cause she wants him back and he really doesnt want to get back together, so she is now going to move out of state and is packing now. My friend calls me up and is devastated and crying saying that he still loves her and doesnt want to stay in the empty apt. and it is just a shock that she's moving. I asked him several times if he wants her back, and he says no, but is crying cause she is moving. Is this normal for someone to be this upset with someone moving away even when the person doesnt want to get back together? Link to post Share on other sites
sandra Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 Yes it is. I'm kinda in the same situation. I know my boyfriend and I aren't a match made in heaven and I need him out of my life. But at the same time I don't because there is an attachement that is so scary to break. It's like my whole life depends on this attachement I've formed with him (emotiona that is). So that's probably what your friend is feeling. He's scared of losing her but at the same time he wants to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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