HMW Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 Hi All My partner of 2.5yrs is being asked to go back to his estranged wife. It's been up and down, with 3 attempts to get back together before. He is fearful of damaging his kids by not being there. She has only known about me for the last 5months or so. He has asked me to marry him, given me a ring, we have set up house. I met the kids last weekend and suddenly she wants him back. He cannot see the manipulation, and she is using the kids to thwart his every move and steps forward to the future. I have no issues with him having kids, i encourage him to spend as much time with them as possible. But she is saying if he loved them he would be there 24/7. Can a woman be serious about wanting a reconciliation after 3 years, he has lived with me for 2, didn't tell her he had moved on, has told her he doesn't love her. Or am I wrong, could she be sincere and want him back even if he doesn't love her. Does 'for the sake of the kids' really work? Is she likely to tire of it after a few months? Wouldn't the kids suffer more? They are well adjusted and are cool with the whole thing, apart from the BS she feeds them. I'd look forward to some feedback. thanks HMW Link to post Share on other sites
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