Guest Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 This one guy really likes me, he has liked me for over a year, there is no questioning this. He is a very insecure guy though (he is 19, we are around the same age I'm a bit older) and enjoys saying and doing stuff to get attention and needs support from his friends, can't think much on his own at least at school. He knows I like him in return and we know each other's xanga addresses. First for about 5 days at the beginning of the semester he flirted with a girl to make me get jealous, now over a month later he is trying to make me think he deals porn which he doesn't. My friend came in the one room at school and overheard a conversation with his friend where he didn't mention my name but it was about me saying how he wants to see me get all beside myself because he knows I like him, he said it gives him attention. He has said in the past he likes it when people fight and stand up for what they believe in, I do this on my site depending on what he says and it seems to turn him on for some dumb reason. Anyway, is this the mentality of a lot of men this age even when they like a person? How long does this phase last? Link to post Share on other sites
kjcrimson3 Posted February 23, 2006 Share Posted February 23, 2006 The guy is clearly trying to find some way to 'fit in' with ya, so...he's probably going over board, and as a result, scaring you to death. Though I'm insecure, I normally show my awkwardness by being too quiet and don't reveal much about my feelings...he seems to be doing the opposite. Most guys are different...unpredictable. Link to post Share on other sites
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