would there be a way to tell her this?

[demonspawn]

after being apart from my ex gf for close to 2 weeks now, i been realizing a lot of faults i had, and well, another girl was one of them, and kind of the major one. There was this girl i knew before I got involved with the girl i was just with. She was awesome, we hung out a lot, so much in common, hung out a few times and we even admitted to liking eachother once, but she had a bf at that time and things were going bad for her. I thought of hanging around and waiting for them to breakup, but i just moved on. So later, I found a girl, and hooked up with her. I was with my girlfriend for a year and a few months, but i was also thinking about "the other girl", since I assumed shed be the one, so i always had her in the back of my mind or as a sort of potential if things would ever go wrong with the current gf i Had. Well..things went wrong with us, and now "the other girl" is in an abusive relationship which she still plans to stay in, and after meeting up with her after my current breakup, she was sooo different and i lost my attraction to her. This is something i would really wish i can tell my current ex about, since I didnt give my relationship all i could give cuz i still thought about "the other girl" but theres no way in hell of a nice way to break it to her, or at least that i know of. Any advice to break this to her in a good way would help though, some way to tell/show her if another chance was possible, that id only focus on her and give her all my love/care?

[Lishy]

If a guy who I was with for a year and a half told me after we broke up, that the reason he was like he was is because he was thinking of another girl I would not be impressed! However he dressed it up I would feel awful and I would never get over it!

 

My advice ..... Try and get her back by SHOWING her you have changed, some things are best left unsaid and I think that is one of them!

 

That is just MY feelings on it though, see what others say!

 

Good luck!