Mydish1 Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 anyway i think i might have a clue what im doing wrong but i need the input of women here. so anyway im in class and i strike up a smooth conversation with a girl, we get along great and are comfortable with one another. Ok the end of class i tell her im going to go eat/go coffee and invite her OR ask her to a date 2 days in advance, and she gives excuses like "i cant" or "im going home", and after my invite, they take like 2 seconds to give me a response. Their interest signs are clearly obvious, but what strikes me is that they dont want to appear easy. (interest signs such as wanting to walk to the train station together or EC + smile, or keeping a convo going even after rejecting my invitation.) hell i put my hand shortly on their arm/shoulder and it's obvious they dont mind while speaking. the most obvious sign of not interested is "im busy", which most guys know by now. But i dont get that from these girls i just get truthful responses. im going to give these women another shot. But what do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
TheSwordfish Posted February 24, 2006 Share Posted February 24, 2006 Don't worry about it, girls will initially apear busy. And some will actually be busy. There is this girl that gives me all the good signs, she even tries to be with me in het own strange way (at school). But I didn't ask her out yet because she is so darn busy. (When kids in class tried to make us a couple, she said she wasn't sure if she could make time for a relation right now, because she's really busy, and she is). I also told the kids I liked being single back then. I think she'll react differently when I ask her out myself though. We talk a lot on MSN, she loved my valentines card, and friends tell me she likes me.... so people can just be really busy. Its not all a game. I was really busy last year, didn't want a relationship because of that. Take your time and you'll be fine Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Seems like she might not be interested, I would pull back and ignore her for awhile then the next time you talk to her, ASK HER OUT. Link to post Share on other sites
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