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[panopitcon]

Hello,

I am new to the site, first post to be exact. I just have an experience/predicament I wish to share and receive feedback. I have been dating my girlfriend for close to six months now and I really love her. We have a great relationship and things were going greater than great until;

 

We are both on 'hi5' (a place to meet new people/hook-ups) but I stopped using my account when we started dating. However, she created an account last month and sent me a 'Five' saying I SUPER COOL. I was flattered, and thought it was nice. Although, to my disbelief, as I was viewing her friend's list, I stumbled across a HANDSOME 'Five' she gave to a 21-year

old

male living in Portugal. It didn't phase me until she phoned me that day and exclaimed she wanted to go to Portugal and to this little town. I checked the male's profile and it was his exact city she wanted to visit. She had also sent him some Photo Comments stating he should be a photographer. He messaged her back saying 'Hey baby, send me some pics, thanks for the 5's, kisses.'

 

I didn't know how to react. But it is bothering me.

Am I too jealous/overprotective?

What I do?

 

Thanks a lot!

[Bryanp]

Your girlfriend is totally disrespecting you and your relationship. If the roles were reversed, do you honestly think she would accept such crap from you. I am sorry but she is playing you. If you goes to Portugal immediately dump because you know what she will be doing with this guy. How disrespectful she is toward you. Why would you wish to be with someone who would do this to you?

[panopitcon]

Thanks for the reply, it is appreciated. I talked to her, she isn't planning on heading to Portugal soon. But what do I do about the whole situation? Also, I asked her as I read her comments if she had wrote them, and she denied. When I accused her of lying, she said it was obvious that I should have known she wrote it.

 

Confused and needing advice,

panopitcon

[Bryanp]

Huge red flag. You asked her if she had written those comments and she denied it. Then you tell her she is lying she replies well you should have known I had written it? What does this tell you? She apparently has no problem lying to you and when you catch her she says you should have known she was lying to you about it? I do not see how you could ever trust her. She lies to your face and writes to another man how great looking he is and how she wishes to visit him. She has no credibility. You will be hurt if you stay with her. Ask yourself why you would wish to be with a liar who has the hots for another guy while she is involved with you? You can do better than this. I wish you luck.