broken heart Posted September 2, 1999 Share Posted September 2, 1999 I need help!! last night i was dumped by the love of my life. he claimed that he cared about me and loved being with me, but didn't want a relationship in boyfriend capacity. We have been through alot the past 9 months. THe last three have been filled with chaos. His house burnrd down, he lost his job and went to work with his dad in another state, his divorce was finalized. I was there for him. He said he doesn't want a relationship with anyone at all. I asked if it were something we could fix. he said he didn't even want to try to fix it. he said he still cares about me etc. How could that be? Could anyone offer any break up survival advice? Why do I still love him? Why do I feel like an idiot? Help, i feel as if i received devastating news like I only have hours to live etc. i feel as if a huge part of my life has been taking away from me. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Michael Posted September 2, 1999 Share Posted September 2, 1999 Time, it will take time for you to get over him. All the cliche' lines are true. "Time heals all wounds" etc. Don't feel like an idiot and don't have any regrets because it sounds like you loved him the best you could but you can't control how other people feel about you. I have been there myself once. I felt like I died. It hurt so much I thought I would never get over it. You probably will be very hurt for a while but with each passing day your broken heart will heal a little more. You will meet other guys, they will put that smile back on your face and make you laugh again. Other people on the list have offered great advice previously: Spent time with friends, its very important to keep busy, go out on dates. He may still care about you and in my case she keeps popping up in my life here and there. I learned that I deserve more and so will you. Link to post Share on other sites
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