Bobbysgirl1970 Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 This may sound stupid, but it seems some my husbands friends dont like me very much. I try to start conversations with some of them but they dont have much to say and for some reason seem really uncomfortable around me. Some of his friends are comfortable around me (we can joke) but others seem so up tight. Sometimes, they ignore me completly, dont even say Hi or look at me. I talked to my Husband about it and he said they are probably intimated because I am so good looking, and they dont know what to say or how to act. (He said that, not me). Ok, well, its been about a year now, why are they still acting this way? I am such a nice, easy going person. I welcome everyone with a smile and friendly hello. What is wrong with me? I just want all of us to get along! Link to post Share on other sites
winner2 Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Sometimes, they ignore me completly, dont even say Hi or look at me. I talked to my Husband about it and he said they are probably intimated because I am so good looking, and they dont know what to say or how to act. (He said that, not me). I am not a man, but I bet that might have something to do with it. Maybe not. I dont know, but I am sure if they hated you you would know it. Maybe some guys are nsecure, and some are not. Link to post Share on other sites
Shicoal Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 First off there is nothing wrong with you! My husband is in the military and I meet tons of people involving his work of coarse his co-workers. They hitch rides with us because we only have one vehicle, and sometimes he hitches rides with them so I don't have to pick him up or when I am using our truck. He invites them over sparingly to download stuff on there computers, giving and borrowing things. Little things that guys do, when they are deployed they hang out with eachother going to bars, dinner, entertainment etc. When they come over only 1 of them has been nice to me ever talks to me or makes the initiative too. The others are not so nice, open or friendly. One of them doesn't talk for shyte litterally doesn't talk. The other one says just about everyone he meets is either "weird", "stupid", "bitch" etc. From what I take on him and my hunch. For all I know he could dislike me and not be honest. He doesn't talk to me to talk to me he talks to my husband and acts all nanchalant when I am around. So I ignore his ass...I ask my hubby about it and well he says I am too quick too judge so I don't give a rat's ass about him when he is around. Could be his gf, I figure he is acting verrrry closed about himself with other females:-P But whatever....As long as you know you have done nothing wrong...who gives a shyte about guys or people like that....just be yourself at all times when they are around. Link to post Share on other sites
KonRyuu Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 There's that one song you should listen to, I forget what it's called, or what all the words are, but it goes something like this... You've got your dumb friends I know what they say, they tell you I'm difficult, but so are they. They don't know me, do they even know you. I forgot the rest, but it's a pretty good song, that verse of the song is the only part that has anything to do with this, but it's pretty good, the rest is about their relationship ending or something, kinda depressing actually, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
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