SoDeepWithinYou Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Sometimes we all need to hear how our partner feels about the relationship we're in and how they feel about us. Recently i've really felt the need to hear from my partner about how he feels and what he thinks about our relationship and me. We don't spend enough time together because of his work and when we do he falls asleep on me after moaning about work...and normally i see him after his works finished...which is normally midnight onwards...so we stay up till 4-6am just being with eachother. He has never really been one to go into detail about our future or about how he feels about our relationship and me. Everythings so rushed in his life that he doesnt stop to think about me and us half the time...and we've been together 8 months now and were seeing eachother on and off (when we had time) a year before we became official. I tell him and show him i love him constantly..i cant help it...i dont smother him though so theres no problem there. He doesnt really give me much attention which most the time isnt his fault but some of the time it really is his fault. For the first time in 8 months he turned round to me last night and said 'I know i said i could'nt stay at yours because i've got things to do tomorrow but is it ok if i stay at yours tonight, we havent really spent any time together' and no it wasnt for sex..nothing of that sort at all...we just spent time being us. So maybe he's starting to wake up and realize that he needs to start making time for us...we shall see (he's never had a serious relationship before...so he's learning)! But...how do i get him to open up about how he feels about thing without coming across like a complete loon or putting too much pressure on him? Link to post Share on other sites
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