figgurinoutlife Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Just a quick question. I would like to hear some stories on how badly some of your relationships ended, as in yelling and screaming type of endings, like "I never wanna see or talk to you again!" or calling them every name in the book. Was just curious what the aftermath was after those horrible endings. Did some of you come back to apologize later on, or makeup? Or did you still stay angry for a long time and hold true to your word about keeping them out of your life? Or did you regret saying mean things and wanting them gone, even if you were already ex's or just friends at the time of the blowup? Or did you really miss them later on, and think "what have I done!" Link to post Share on other sites
shawn2730 Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 mine has ended badly...I "checked up on her" to see if she was faithful and got cuaght. She blew up.. screaming yelling.. she hates me thinks i am a monster a psycho etc. I never yelled or got upset. I admitted everything.. I apologized a lot.. I feel so awful. She doesn't want to ever hear from me again. Wants me to disapear. I love her so much. I understand her anger and hatred after what I did. I feel so badly. I want her to know that but can't tell her wihout upsetting her more. I don't knwo what to do Link to post Share on other sites
Poconobob Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Don't beat yourself, it obviously happened that you felt compelled to check on her... I had the same feeling....Mine ended weird too... bob Link to post Share on other sites
hurtbeyondwords Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 mine ended poorly as well. She said some things that really hurt and I left her place with no closeure. I broke off all contact with her and she emailed me the other night (three weeks later). She said that she did not like the way we left things and wants me to know that I am still important to her. As much as it hurts Im going to keep NC. Unless she is breaking down my door, which I cannot see happening, Im not going to continue hurting myself. Link to post Share on other sites
pandnh4 Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 pretty much all of my relationships have ended badly... my most recent breakup was no exception... the first time she got upset at me for going to a tutoring session that i give and with which she was uncomfortable (due to serious insecurities and lack of trust in me), even though we had come to a formal agreement that it was ok... when i didn't hear from her the next day i went over to her place the following morning and in her hungover state she flipped out on me, verbally abused me, and then called an end to the relationship... fast-forward to the next week with a reconciliation and another 6 days back together... during that time she had gotten upset again about the tutoring issue and changed our agreement once more... when i gave into her revised terms she just kept on being demanding and picking fights with me... then a few days later she chose to get upset over a gift card that i had given her and she had not yet used... so anyway, she flips out over the phone (literally, yelling, throwing the phone, everything), saying she thinks i'm a dirty liar that she can't trust, that she doesn't want to have anything to do with me, etc... it's been nc for 3 weeks now, though she did text me a few days after the breakup to wish me a happy birthday... jeez, so happy that she thought of me... Link to post Share on other sites
Simons Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 I don't think it matters, the truth is, it has ended. Mine ended by her letting me talk to her new guy. I did not believe her when she told me she has a new bf. When i called the last time, she told me she was at her bf place. I wanted to make sure, so i asked if i could say hi to him. You can imagine how i felt. I am starting my 5th month since then. We never shouted at each, i wished her all the best. So here i am. Sometimes i think shouting or yelling is good coz you let go a lot of energies. Link to post Share on other sites
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