Naive Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 I had a crazy day today! My ex, which is and was a MM back when we ended our relationship, showed up at my school today. He was just there, waiting by mhy car until I got there. It has been more than a year since I last saw him. I was extremely shocked. He walkwed up to me and asked me to please not walk into the car without hearing all he had to say. It was pouring and I was not about to stand there until he was done saying what he wanted to say. I asked him if he was there to talk to me and he said yes. I told him that it was very weird and scary to have him just show up at my school. He said he found out I am engaged and that he was real happy for me. He, allegedly, wants to be friends. I said sorry but I do not have time and I have to go. I have to admit I was shocked and it brought back many memories, but it does not threaten what I have wih my fiance. I cannot understand why would he look for me and specially to tell me that he is happy for me. He should be home taking care of his child and wife. WEIRD!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Wow, that's the second one today of someone making contact after a year. There must be something in the air today. If I were you, send him a message telling him you're engaged and you don't ever want him to contact you again. Link to post Share on other sites
Poconobob Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 MAN, I totally agree with the below in every sense! Plus I agree WEIRD.. bob Wow, that's the second one today of someone making contact after a year. There must be something in the air today. If I were you, send him a message telling him you're engaged and you don't ever want him to contact you again. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Good for you! What a schmuck he is...Seems maybe he was testing the waters to 'see' what would happen if he tried opening that door again. DO NOT be friends with him. He has nothing good to add into your life. You are about to be married and the only man you'll need is the one you're sleeping next to everynight! IF he ever tries to contact you again, tell him you'll tell his wife! Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 Geez gir...confused: I'm proud of you for walking away. I remember the hold he had on you before and I'd say after a year of NC.....he doesn't deserve your friendship or company. I'm glad to hear that it doesn't threaten what you have with your fiance....glad to know that you two are still going strong (and will continue to do so). Well take care chica... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Naive Posted March 1, 2006 Author Share Posted March 1, 2006 Wow, that's the second one today of someone making contact after a year. There must be something in the air today. If I were you, send him a message telling him you're engaged and you don't ever want him to contact you again. Well I have no way of sending him a message nor would I want to. The less contact the better. The good thing is that he got the idea. At least, I think he got the idea. He knows that I am engaged and he said that was the reason he went looking for me. He wants to be friends. All I want is for him to leave me alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Naive Posted March 1, 2006 Author Share Posted March 1, 2006 Good for you! What a schmuck he is...Seems maybe he was testing the waters to 'see' what would happen if he tried opening that door again. DO NOT be friends with him. He has nothing good to add into your life. You are about to be married and the only man you'll need is the one you're sleeping next to everynight! IF he ever tries to contact you again, tell him you'll tell his wife! He can go to hell. It's not my fault that he is unhappy. I definitely will tell his wife if he keeps bothering, I will find a way to contact her. I just hope that he does not bother me. OUR TIME PASSED... Thanks for the support. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Naive Posted March 1, 2006 Author Share Posted March 1, 2006 Geez gir...confused: I'm proud of you for walking away. I remember the hold he had on you before and I'd say after a year of NC.....he doesn't deserve your friendship or company. I'm glad to hear that it doesn't threaten what you have with your fiance....glad to know that you two are still going strong (and will continue to do so). Well take care chica... Thanks. That's right, he HAD a hold on me. I think he was surprised to see that he does not have anything on me anymore. I just feel sorry for his wife. I think he continues to do STUFF behind her back and it was not just because I am "special" to him. That was all BS. Anyway, hope to see you around here. Link to post Share on other sites
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