ScarredStar Posted February 28, 2006 Share Posted February 28, 2006 I broke up with my ex five months ago. We were together for five months, but I fell madly in love with him all the same. We split up because he met someone else and had more feelings for them than he had for me, even though he said he still really really liked me. I know he was genuienly upset due to the break up, and we've remained friends regardless. We don't contact each other as we decided that would be best, but we move in the same circle of friends, so chat when we see each other out. He's still with the girl that he finished with me for, but to the best of my knowledge, they don't see each other that much. I also think the relationship is based on attraction (their all over each other constantly), but obviously I don't know for sure. She doesn't want to meet his friends and I never see her out with him. Anyway, I've been considering giving me a second chance lately, but I'm not sure if it's worth my time and effort. I'm not sure if he still likes me in that way, but fairly recently he's been fiddling with things and seemed nervous when we talked. He'd figit with his cigarette box or his beard. Whenever his band played too, I'd notice him looking down from the stage at me. We always hug when we see each other too. One of the recent hugs we had was different. He put his full arm around me rather than our usual nervous hugs (simply because its not the same any more) and kind of rested his head in between my neck and shoulder (Im a tad taller than him whilst in my 6 inch platforms lol!). I don't know if any of this means anything. It could be wishful thinking. I'm currently seeing someone and this guy loves me a lot but unfortunately I just don't feel the same way. Any thing else I should look for? Or any ideas about whats going on? Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ScarredStar Posted March 1, 2006 Author Share Posted March 1, 2006 Anyone? Please help, I'm so confused Link to post Share on other sites
hurtbeyondwords Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 He is clearly confused. Give him time scarredstar. Noone wants to be with someone that is not sure of what they want. Let him be sure so that you can have all of him and not just a part. From the sounds of it you are confused yourself with the person you are seeing. If that person means anything to you, do not take him along for your ride. In the mean time you should go out have fun and worry about yourself. hope that helps Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 Sorry but im a guy and well I've used that line before and well he is gone he still sees you and well he is just doing it to tap that ass sorrry I am so volger I guess but its true and if he isn't tapping it then well yeah give him time every time he will do something with the other girl he will remember you and it will be like torture and well give him time we all budge one way or another Link to post Share on other sites
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