Guy Posted September 4, 2001 Share Posted September 4, 2001 I stop seeing a lot of friends because I think they get on my nevers. I either like the person or don't like the person. Am I a difficult person being too selective?? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 4, 2001 Share Posted September 4, 2001 I think it's good to be selective in who you are friends with...but try not to be so judgemental right off from the start. You'd be surprised at how many people who may have turned you off initially could end up being your dearest friends later on because they were just having a bad day when you met them. As far as existing friends, usually we cast off friends when they cease to meet our needs...as harsh as that may sound, it's just a reality. When a friend no longer seems special in your life or no longer contributes in some fashion to your happiness or wellbeing, you do them a service by terminating the friendship. Sometimes you can reconnect later on...sometimes they are just gone forever. But ending a friendship in no way diminishes the purpose of the friendship while it existed, the joy that it brought, or the lessons learned. I also suggest you look in the mirror sometime. To have a good friend, you've got to be a good friend. Are you doing your part in the friendships you are terminating or are you using these friends for your own selfish ends? Link to post Share on other sites
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