prfrogkisser Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 Hello Everyone! Im trying this for the first time and I hope it works. I always though venting and talking about a situatuion usually made things better so I hope this works. Ive been dating someone for a few months. He is a very mature and nice man.We have done a lot of things together but as all women want to know, I asked him about us. What are we and where we were going.His response was... lets see where this takes us. Of course not the one i expected and ive been very confused and hurt ever since.Honestly I dont want to waste my time and to top it off we havent seen each other for two weeks. I usually have men hitting on me left and right. This waiting is a huge first for me. Should i continue this? or like my friends say he is not that into you? Thanks for all your help Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 I think your instincts are right - that he's not as into you as he probably ought to be a few months in. Especially with the not seeing each other for two weeks it seems like "let's see" is code for "..if I can find something better." Go find a guy that is into you! If we're wrong and he is just taking it slow, he'll resurface. If not, you haven't lost anything by dating. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 Well it's kinda obvious, the man who is possibly experienced in dating knows you want to make this into a more serious relationship and apparently the dude is either freaked out of wanting to be serious with you. Like the above poster, he possibly isn't that much interested and 2 weeks is quite a long while from an active dating period. Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 When you feel ready to have that conversation, the one which goes, "where are we going with this?", you have to be absolutely clear in your own mind what you want first. You also have to be prepared to walk away if the answer doesn't match your expectations. Link to post Share on other sites
Author prfrogkisser Posted March 2, 2006 Author Share Posted March 2, 2006 I think your instincts are right - that he's not as into you as he probably ought to be a few months in. Especially with the not seeing each other for two weeks it seems like "let's see" is code for "..if I can find something better." Go find a guy that is into you! If we're wrong and he is just taking it slow, he'll resurface. If not, you haven't lost anything by dating. Thank you so much for your kind open minded and honest replies. I have kicked this one to the curb. You are all great!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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