Guest Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Ok i will explain the story quickly to get to where i am now. Catch Gf who i lived with txting and calling her ex when i finaly get out of her whats up she says she was just talking to him as someone outside the loop cause she doesnt know who she is what she wants etc then i get the i tthink i need time on my own to sort my head out and that she loves me but isnt in love with me, so a week later i move out. She goes to see her ex i find out she lies then admits it but says nothing happened( this bit i beleve) then she starts doing random stuf like messaging guys from dating sites etc but one of the guy she messages knows me he tells her this during an im chat but she still talks to him and send him pics of her in her underwear. well this guy is obviously an idiot as he gets my email and starts sending me the im chat logs. I confront her with it and she breaks down really scared of loosing me i get an email saying how i mean the world and more to her that she loves me. then later that day 2 txt messages saying she loves me. Now a couple of weeks later she is being nice to me we spent the weekend together had a fantastic time slept in the same bed cuddled and flirted through the weekend she held my hand and sometimes would say "we" when it related to things i helped her decorate the bathroom and she said what coulour should we paint it. etc. She has allways said she wants to be friends but what should i do this is killing me im not ready to be friends yet should i go no contact? I love the girl more than anything do you think she still has feeleings for me ??? God im so confused I apolgise for lack of grammer and punctuation but was typing as fast as my brain was thinking! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 So....why is she on dating sites and sending pictures of herself in her underwear to other men if she wants to be with you? Big RED flag for you, my friend. She has some issues to deal with and doesn't seem like she is ready to be in a committed relationship. She may have feelings for you, but certainly not the kind that are strong enough to keep her eyes focused on you. Link to post Share on other sites
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