SpoiledBrat Posted March 3, 2006 Share Posted March 3, 2006 I have been seeing this man since the end of November, initially it was casual and I knew his EX was still hanging around. By the end of December he told me he wasnt seeing her anymore, we still had a casual relationship that was developing into something more. He stayed at my house several nights a week and we spent almost all of our free time together. Mid January, I told him I wanted us to be exclusive, he was spending EVERY night at my house, our friends considered us a couple, he even gave me a key to his house and gave me all his $$ to hold for him! I went out with my girlfriends for the 1st time this new year last Saturday, he didnt want to come out with us because he didnt like the type of music they were playing and it woulda been him and 3 girls at the club .. I said I would just go to his house after the club since I've never stayed at his house before. After I left the club I called him several times and he didnt answer, I just figured he fell asleep and didnt hear the phone, since I had a key to his house I decided to just go over there as we discussed. When I got there my heart SANK, his EX's car was there. I unlocked the door and the chain was on, I called his name but he didnt not hear me so I slid my hand in and the chain came off!!! I went right to his room where they were in bed together, sleeping NAKED! I banged on the bedroom door and he looked up at me and looked in his bed at her and said "WHATS UP?" I told him he better come get all his **** from my house right now and I left. She never woke up or she was too scared to move. He came right away to get his stuff @ 4am. The next day he called to ask me if he could come get some movies I forgot to pack and he did.. I gave him back a movie he bought for me and some stuffed animals he bought me also, he looked like he was gonna cry when he saw I gave him his gifts back and he begged me to keep them and told me he was sorry and he knew he messed up and lost my trust. Monday, he started blowing up my phone and my text messages, saying he wasnt gonna give up and he'd do ANYTHING to make it right for US. He says he wants to be with me, not her. He doesnt have an explanation of why it happened other then he made a stupid mistake and wished he could have the day back to do over again. He has changed his phone #, so she cant call him and he wants to move (with me) so she cant come by his house. I think we can get thru this. My issue is this crazy girl who wont go away. She knows we are seeing each other. They've been broken up since September. I of course am still very cautious and will continue to be. I see he's making an effort to get her out of his life, but she is very persistant. She goes by his job (i work across the street, so I can see when she's there) She brought him a card that said maybe one day we can get back together, but it takes 2. She knows he doesnt want to be with her, but she wont go away!!! Any suggestions? Comments? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 You can't be serious!? Do NOT let this guy convince you that it's anything but his own fault. Do NOT blame this on the ex - she's clearly reading his signals and acting on them. What signals? Him putting his penis in her for one thing. Do not let this cheating bast*rd back into your life. Much less move in with you! Your post reads like a massive car accident waiting to happen. I'm talking 65 car pile-up! Run, run, run! Link to post Share on other sites
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