Michelle74 Posted March 4, 2006 Share Posted March 4, 2006 Well, this is more of a vent than a thread for input. About three years ago I went through a divorce that really hurt me like no other pain I have ever felt before. But, I lived through it and I have moved on with my life. I met a man who has been there for me thru thick and thin in my life and has never given up on me no matter the circumstances. I have bought my own house and I am traveling for work and planning on marrying this wonderful man in Greece in October or November. Life is going pretty good. Well, about 3 weeks ago I get a call from one of the police dept. in our area wanting to question me. I have no ideal what this could possibly be about because I know I paid my last speeding ticket and I know I have no warrants for me. So my lawyer calls the officer and the officer calls me back and asks me if I robbed my ex-husband and his new wife's home. I told the officer that I took everything I could ever want from him in our divorce, and if my name is ever brought up in something like this again I would sue for slander (silly I know but I was mad). I have some done some mean things in life but I would never steal from someone. (My friends and family had a wonderful laugh about this) Now, he is telling people that he did not cheat on me with his best friends wife. *LOL* I talked to the wife when this whole situation occured, she said it was true. Why would she lie about an affair. (She did not want him and has since divorced her ex and moved on to have a child with another man) Since I refuse any and all kind of contact with him I hear all this from the grapevine. It seems like he is attempting to hold on to the past which is over with no chance in hell of ever happening again. I just hope one day he will move on and get over the past.. Sorry Sorry Man.... Link to post Share on other sites
tweldy Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 That's really awful to have to deal again with someone who has caused you so much pain. There might be something legal you can do. Its not cheap, but talking to lawyer might yield some ways to send this buffoon a message he can't ignore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Michelle74 Posted March 5, 2006 Author Share Posted March 5, 2006 Trust me I told the police officer that I spoke to that if this kind of harrassment ever happen again my lawyer would be more than happy to take legal action against him. I just hope for his sake he heeds the officers advice... Link to post Share on other sites
Spacekase Posted March 8, 2006 Share Posted March 8, 2006 Well you are correct, the dude needs to get over it. I imagine the police inquiry had more to do with the cops covering their a$$es than anything else. I wouldn't be surprised about him lying about the affair. Shame will do that to people, and so will lack of moral character. And the slander thing... the legal standard is pretty high for that. It almost never works. But then, you were angry... as you probably had a right to be. You made your point to him, if nothing else Link to post Share on other sites
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