Mydish1 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Ok im classmates with this girl. So current situation is we're very friendly and mess around with each other. Anyway a month ago, i told her i was going grab something to eat after class and invited her...she gave me a reason she couldnt make it (true or false i dont know) we exchanged #'s and she was enthusiastic about getting mine. However i ran into her at the train and we were all chatty and friendly. 2nd time (a week later), i told her i was going across the street to grab a burger and invited her to join me...2 seconds later, her response "i cant". a week later im all good and cool with her in class and continued as we were, but didnt bother asking her out. i know she has a busy schedule and is usually free on weekends. This week, i got smart and asked again a few days beforehand...she unhesitantly agreed. Today(day she agreed) in class, said she couldnt grab food with me today and said she owed me one...then suggested next week, i asked which day? she stated after thurs or saturday class (the days we have class together). I said im not sure yet i'd let her know next week. I leave before her (but not before saying 'see you later!') and eventually end up running into her at the train again...And in the middle of the train ride, she apologized about it again, and again i told her i'd let her know next week. But we were all friendly/chatty as if her rejection didnt happen. Seems to me she went straight home, as we take the same train going home. and she had no reasonable excuse for me. However since this is the first time i made a date before hand, it gave her a chance to counter-offer which isnt all that bad. Should i give her another shot or is she just messing with my head? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 It sounds like she's uninterested but "too nice" to reject you flat out. The bottom line is that if you ask out a girl that's interested in you, she will literally clear out her schedule to hang out with you. If you've asked her more than once and it hasn't happened, it's pretty safe to assume that she's not interested. Try another girl. MD Link to post Share on other sites
MadDog Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 She's not interested but "too nice" to say no. The bottom line is that if a girl's interested, she'll literally clear out her schedule if you ask her out. You've asked more than once so it's time to move on to the next girl. MD Link to post Share on other sites
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