kevinab1984 Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 i have a short ? my best friend is engaged to this really nice girl. at this time she is in college and he supposbily takes night classed for jsut an hour at night. Well this is whats going on... they are really great friends... i havnt talked to her ever until a about a few weeks ago when he started bringing her arround. well she plays basket abll i've gone to a few of the games with my friend.. and now we all 3 occassioanly go ot to eat. well most of the time when we eat she pays more attention to me than she does him. and when we play cards she always wants to sit next to me. well she does talk to me a lot and treats me really nice. we talk over the interte alot when he is in class. well lately he has not even been going to callss he has not even had a job in over 6 months. all he does is sit around and do nothing. well lately she tells him that he needs to be like me and get a job but at this time he states that he does not want a job. last week he went to cincinatti to see his mom, and he wanted me to go so i went, then she said to me who will she have to talk to if i go with him. sometimes io feel that she likes me ,,but then i think that they are engaged .. but alot of the times when i go over to see them or even when we go to eat bowling etc they bicker alot..... he constantly pcks at her.... but anyway does it sound like htat she likes me !!!! please answer back:bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 It doesn't matter what signs she's showing you. She's engaged to your best friend - stay away from her and let them sort out their own issues. Nothing good will come out of your getting involved in their relationship. To answer your question, yes, women do sometimes fall for their so's friend - or they will at least flirt with them and make both people think there's something going on there. She could be doing this for any number of reasons but it looks to me like she wants someone with some ambition and your friend just doesn't get it. Their relationship is about to expire. Having said that, this is not an invitation for you to come in and fan the flames. Your buddy would go from being your best friend to your worst nightmare. And this little drama queen would use you as a rebound. I doubt very seriously anything will ever come of you two...no matter how much attraction she might have at the moment. Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 You've got to be kidding Kevin. You're seriously thinking about making a move on your buddy's fiance?! don't go there. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 i agree with the others. Always remember, Bros before hoes. Girls can always be easily replaced. But friends will always be there for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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