love2love Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 So I was dating this guy for a month and a half . Things were going great he made plans with me 5 days a week was considerate and loving and introduced me to all his friends and met all my friends and everything was great. He would even spend the day with my girlfirends and I and walk around as we shopped...Well anyways one night we were together after I scolded him for leaving me hanging to take a call. He was talking to his agent as he is a film maker and negotiating salary . Well I gave him the silent treatment and he felt bad . Then later on we were together and I asked him what he thought of us. He said sometimes he feels he can't get close to me because he feels I act fake. I was like what do you mean and he says I act fake and talk like I have a british accent like Madonna .Well I got mad at him and walked out on him and he folllowed me down all the way to the street with his pajama's on and no shoes.I told him I was mad at him and to leave me alone and that I dont' want to be near him....Well I let a day pass and we talked and I said are we over and he said he thought we were when I walked out on him. He says he doesn't take well to girls walking out on him and that I am a great girl I can get any guy and that he's going to be busy with his movie projects and he's had girls leave him before because they can't take the hours and time commitment and doesn't know if he can give me what I want. Well he said that sometimes he tosses out the baby with the bathwater and to that I said I guess we are over then...Well I asked him what we should do about exchanging out stuff a week later and he suggested that we do it at a coffee shop tonight. Should I ask him for another chance...should I bring it up or let him bring it up? I really like him and want another chance and to tell him to give us some more time to grow and take it one day at a time and see if we grow. Is it possible he is scared it won't work and I might leave him later so he's trying to do it now before he gets in too deep or is he just not that into me? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Question, and yes this is relevent. How old are you both? Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 You broke up with him because he accused you of having a fake British accent like Madonna? And now you want to get back together because _________. So, two things. Either he totally disrespected you and made fun of how you talk for no reason, or he mentioned something truthful and you reacted defensively. In either case, this sounds awful. Link to post Share on other sites
Author love2love Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 He is 35 I am 29. I know it sounds ridiculous how this came about. I don't know why he said what he said . He says he doesn't either. I am soooo confused. Please help. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 Sorry, but I think he did the right thing. Frankly, you sound really immature and overly dramatic. He spends 5 days a week with you despite his busy schedule and the fact that you've only dated for a month and a half and then you give him hell for taking a call and leaving you hanging even though you knew he was negotiating his salary? Are you kidding? And then you walk out on him? I'm thinking that he couldn't have come up with something like the fake british accent thing on his own - there has to be some kind of truth in that. I've known people like that before. I'm wondering if you're in LA because that's where I'm from. You need to leave the dramatics for the stage. Link to post Share on other sites
Author love2love Posted March 7, 2006 Author Share Posted March 7, 2006 Well he wasn't busy when he was dating me. He had a lot of time on his hands .He didn't have any projects until this past week one week after our blow up. . So I was understanding but I also don't feel like letting anyone take me for granted and leave me hanging. It's perfectly natural to ask he be considerate. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 I think you're both being a little immature, frankly. Link to post Share on other sites
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