pls help explain??!!

[wilson]

I'm wondering why every gf that I had does not want to engage in SEX with me, or anyone but their future husband.

 

I know y'all gonna say im a loser, blahblah blah, im not gonna get none and how if it was you, you've scored already. But really why some girls like that? or is it me? i don't think so, some are crazy about me, but its like as if im gonna say "hey how bout lets check into a room and make love " or does that need to be said?

 

i rarely woo girls, im interested in nice genuinely GOOD girls, but that does not mean no SEX. My past gfs and present gf's friends are usually all virgins and strict family..why is that? im wondering why all girls i bump into have such a "HIGH" moral????

[Tony T]

The girls you bump into have high morals because they are repulsed by you and your attitude. You see them as sex objects and they know that your ultimate goal with each one of them is to screw them...yes, SCREW, not make love. Women aren't stupid.

 

When you finally decide that females are human beings to be related to on that level and whatever happens from there is just a bonus, you will have lots more success. Women are not machines to insert your penis into. Basically, mostly lower animal forms set out each day primarily to have intercourse with the opposite sex in between eating food and being curious. Humans are supposed to be above that.

 

I'm not going to say you're a loser, blah, blah, blah, you aren't gonna get none...and if it was me I would have scored already...but, then again, that might not be inaccurate.

[clia]

If a girl really likes a guy, she generally will not sleep with him until she is positive that he really likes her back and is definitely going to call the next day. Given the way many guys out there treat girls (sounds like you, too), a lot of girls are terrified to engage in sex and then never hear from the guy again. Sex is generally a more emotional experience for women, and they aren't looking to 'get laid', but to have a bonding experience with someone they really care about. (Of course, there are exceptions.) You aren't getting any because you come across as a player who is only out to have sex. If you can change your outlook and treat your girlfriends like they are human beings instead of boobs and butt, then maybe you might have better luck.

I'm wondering why every gf that I had does not want to engage in SEX with me, or anyone but their future husband. I know y'all gonna say im a loser, blahblah blah, im not gonna get none and how if it was you, you've scored already. But really why some girls like that? or is it me? i don't think so, some are crazy about me, but its like as if im gonna say "hey how bout lets check into a room and make love " or does that need to be said? i rarely woo girls, im interested in nice genuinely GOOD girls, but that does not mean no SEX. My past gfs and present gf's friends are usually all virgins and strict family..why is that? im wondering why all girls i bump into have such a "HIGH" moral????

[yes]

Don't any girls look to just get laid?

 

I don't get why it is always men seeking sex, and women sort of holding it off as much as possible ... it's a great pleasure for both parties, and as long as protection is used, i dont see why women would want it any less than men ...

 

Society has this icky standard about girls who're after sex ... it's annoying eh? Sometimes i meet guys who i'd want to be lovers with, but not bf-gf ... and i can't afford to do that - cuz it would basically ruin my reputation ...

 

Anyway, just blabbing ...

If a girl really likes a guy, she generally will not sleep with him until she is positive that he really likes her back and is definitely going to call the next day. Given the way many guys out there treat girls (sounds like you, too), a lot of girls are terrified to engage in sex and then never hear from the guy again. Sex is generally a more emotional experience for women, and they aren't looking to 'get laid', but to have a bonding experience with someone they really care about. (Of course, there are exceptions.) You aren't getting any because you come across as a player who is only out to have sex. If you can change your outlook and treat your girlfriends like they are human beings instead of boobs and butt, then maybe you might have better luck.

[wilson]

I doubt they are replused, if so they would'nt be my gf, i am not rich, i don't have a house or nor a car..so if its not love i dunno..why then.

[clia]

Don't any girls look to just get laid?

 

Heck yeah. I was just saying that generally if a girl really likes a guy and is looking for more than to just get laid (i.e. be elevated to girlfriend status) they will tend to hold off longer until they are sure they know what they're dealing with. (To avoid the hurt of never hearing the phone ring again...)

I don't get why it is always men seeking sex, and women sort of holding it off as much as possible ... it's a great pleasure for both parties, and as long as protection is used, i dont see why women would want it any less than men ...

I don't think women want it any less than men. I think, though, for women it's sometimes harder to separate the feelings from the physical act. It's possible for women to have empty sex, but it works much better if they don't have deep feelings for the guy they are with.

Society has this icky standard about girls who're after sex ... it's annoying eh? Sometimes i meet guys who i'd want to be lovers with, but not bf-gf ... and i can't afford to do that - cuz it would basically ruin my reputation ...

You should go ahead and do it. You don't have to blab it to the world. I have one of those booty call guys. He's awesome, but I have no interest in dating him, so it works out well for both of us. (We are so incompatible!) But it's fun. And we both keep our mouths shut about it. A perfect situation when you get frustrated...