Curmudgeon Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 There is always talk of soulmates, marriages made in heaven, perfect couples, people meant to be together, etc. Perhaps it was somewhat presumptious of me but this is what I wrote to my wife on my 53d birthday after we'd been married for three years and friends for eight. I called it "God's Plan." ........................................................................................................ Fifty-three years ago today God looked down, saw what he had made and said, "Not bad for a rush job -- all those boomers you know --but it's only half done. I'll finish it when I get a little more time on my hands," and then He smiled. Just over two years later, God finished what He had begun but the two halves were separated by a wide ocean. God figured they'd come together eventually, all in His good time. First, however, as if to test their resolve, God made sure the two halves crisscrossed one another for years; never meeting, always missing. As a further challenge He set mistakes, bad choices and unhappy experiences in their paths, piled them high with baggage, then sat back to observe and see if they were ready and worthy of the great gift He'd always had in store for them. They were! After 50 years the two halves finally came together and were whole. Again God looked down. "What took you so long?" He asked. He smiled again for He knew the answer. What He had brought together was good and forever. Link to post Share on other sites
bluetuesday Posted March 7, 2006 Share Posted March 7, 2006 oh... that's beautiful! your username is badly chosen. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Curmudgeon Posted March 8, 2006 Author Share Posted March 8, 2006 your username is badly chosen. I thought it rather inspired. I do have a few years under me and I can be cranky and opinionated at times. What more do I need? Link to post Share on other sites
shelters Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 There is always talk of soulmates, marriages made in heaven, perfect couples, people meant to be together, etc. Perhaps it was somewhat presumptious of me but this is what I wrote to my wife on my 53d birthday after we'd been married for three years and friends for eight. I called it "God's Plan." ........................................................................................................ Fifty-three years ago today God looked down, saw what he had made and said, "Not bad for a rush job -- all those boomers you know --but it's only half done. I'll finish it when I get a little more time on my hands," and then He smiled. Just over two years later, God finished what He had begun but the two halves were separated by a wide ocean. God figured they'd come together eventually, all in His good time. First, however, as if to test their resolve, God made sure the two halves crisscrossed one another for years; never meeting, always missing. As a further challenge He set mistakes, bad choices and unhappy experiences in their paths, piled them high with baggage, then sat back to observe and see if they were ready and worthy of the great gift He'd always had in store for them. They were! After 50 years the two halves finally came together and were whole. Again God looked down. "What took you so long?" He asked. He smiled again for He knew the answer. What He had brought together was good and forever. Beautiful!! There is a (cheesy, yes, but who cares!) movie from the 80s with Kelly McGillis- Made In Heaven- about the idea of soulmates. At the end she is dancing with hers (played by Timothy Hutton) and he whispers, "will you marry me?" To which she replies, "according to Heaven, we already are." Link to post Share on other sites
aleatoryd Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 ^^^^ Really cool guys! Link to post Share on other sites
seven Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 That was beautiful--actually teared me up a bit. And I truly mean no offense when I say that, especially as a male, you can express yourself like that is both hopeful and yet saddens me too. This topic of soulmates has been haunting me for awhile now. In a way, I want to expand on what I mean, but in another way ... I feel like a proverbial pandora's box. In any event, keep doing what you're doing Curmudgeon, and I'm certain that you and your wife will have wonderful years together. And p.s. - yes, it must be a 40's or 50's thing because I'm fiestier than ever as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Chinook Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 aww, I like nice things that make me smile. Often on LS we see a lot of pain and heartbreak but it is nice to see the nice stuff too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Curmudgeon Posted May 6, 2006 Author Share Posted May 6, 2006 I like nice things too. Reading here I get the feeling that all too many find relationships, dating, marriage, commitment, etc. a hassle and far too demanding. Thankfully, that was not and has not been my experience this time around. Granted, my wife and I brought a collective 98 years worth of baggage into our marriage but over time, we worked through it. What was never in question or doubt was/is our devotion to one another and this relationship. Marriage is damned hard work if it's going to survive and flourish. We each do our best to enhance one another and the relationship and the emotional rewards make all the effort more than worth it. I think we need a Relationship Success Board - the how-to-dos and the successes. It might just give others a hint or two and some hope. Link to post Share on other sites
Chinook Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 I think you're right. Link to post Share on other sites
2good2b4gotten Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Hello, I think that's a great idea about the relationship success board. You made me smile with what you wrote too! Brightened up my day! Link to post Share on other sites
shelters Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 I think we need a Relationship Success Board - the how-to-dos and the successes. It might just give others a hint or two and some hope. YES Moderators?? Are you listening?? Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted May 7, 2006 Share Posted May 7, 2006 Awe! Take note you youngsters out there -- don't be afraid to express yourself! That was more macho/manly/sexy/confident than any of the puffed up chests and self-inflated egos that I've seen and read from some of those who think that sensitive = weakness = less desirable. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Awe! Take note you youngsters out there -- don't be afraid to express yourself! That was more macho/manly/sexy/confident than any of the puffed up chests and self-inflated egos that I've seen and read from some of those who think that sensitive = weakness = less desirable. It's awesome because it's C=Lion! He's amazing! Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Awe! Take note you youngsters out there -- don't be afraid to express yourself! That was more macho/manly/sexy/confident than any of the puffed up chests and self-inflated egos that I've seen and read from some of those who think that sensitive = weakness = less desirable. One of the best things that I have ever learned to do. Link to post Share on other sites
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