Where to find nice girls

[riobikini]

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Becoming: "...you've got to come up with a list of desirable characteristics and then try to figure out where such a woman would hang out."

 

Ping!

 

Right on the nailhead!

 

-Rio

[Pyro]

IMO, don't go out looking for them, they will come to you. In my experience, all the nice girls that I have met have come when I wasn't thinking about it or trying to look for them.

[Yamaha]

It is easy to find nice girls. If you act nice they will be nice in return. The real problem for most guys is that being nice gets them friends but not girl friends. Look at the posts from lots of men asking if their friend likes them "romantically". This is why men feel they have to be jerky to attract a romantic interest in women. You learn by trial and error. If it didn't work do you think men would be using this method? Think about it. If you want a girl who is a friend then be nice and supportive and emotionally available to her but if you want a romantic relationship you need that extra ingredient "chemistry" and that entails a more animalistic approach to a women.

[Mary3]

mary:

of course if you ask a girl straight up if they love jerks or softies, then they will say no. Neither oneBut the majority of girls out there does otherwise.No you just thinks thats the case Saying and doing are two different things and most people tend to say and not do what they say.Most people should do what they say

 

Obviously most girls do not want a prick, however, in real life, they date pricks cuz like what masaki said: girls like a guy who has a backbone. (and being a jerk is the only way to show it?) wrong again Smart playas who knows this and tune into the girl's wants and bingo, they got pussy faster than the average quiet dude.good guys get pu**sy too if they know how to treat a girl

 

If you say is true, then the many girls that i've overheard in class would not complain about the guys they meet as being jerks. Then again these are the chicks that has no manners and leave the cell phones ringing during class (attention whores). having no manners or being an attention whore does not excuse the girl from having rude behavior and does not set as an idicator that ALL girls behave this way

 

"But ask them if they want a great guy who treats them awesome who is stable in employment and disposition and they will tell you YES !"

This is one of the reasons girls fall for jerks. Remember, the jerks know that girls are looking for this...Jerks have high failure rates with women because we sicken easily of the bullshi** so they drive nice cars and dress nice. They start out treating girls nicely, but act tuff... they drive maybe a lexus or bmw/mercedes... Girls love this. Most girls might like a nice car but almost ALL girls prefer a decent man with a good attitude and heart

 

I'm not exactly rich myself... but im much better off than those scammers and im very quiet and willing to dedicate much to a relationship. But seeing how USA girls are all feminazi, im scared. USA girls can be femnazis, lesbians ,serial killers , whores , scammers but they can ALSO be wonderful human beings that you may never get to know because you stereotyped them into a certain category when in fact not all women act that way you desribe

 

As Teddy Roosevelt said, "Speak softly and carry a big stick..." No its more like talk less, listen closely and you might learn something here ...

 

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[ddnnee]

i see someone likes me and replies to my posts

[littlekitty]

Calling all US woman-hating "nice guys" in the US. Lindya will be joining forces with other non US women to give you a European/Antipodean/Asian tour during which you can find your perfect woman. Most of our gentlemen have managed to find a wife in "I'll be your perfect woman until I've got my Green Card, then I'll divorce your ugly, misogynistic ass and take every penny I can" Land.

 

Sorry, no refunds.

 

Need a business partner? Apparently only beautiful, slim women live in the UK and Europe...?! Really? Come and have a peak around my work place....!!!

 

With the comments from males on here, I can easily understand why YOU guys are having trouble finding a nice girl. With those views, you're going to always find it hard!

 

Not all women like jerks. Many women do go through a learning process of dating a jerk and then realising that you need to stay away from them. But we don't want to marry a jerk or have him raise our children.

 

We want the nice guy. That's because we're nice girls.

[SmoochieFace]

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Oh, I doubt that, Smoochieface, (Smile) -even your screen nick indicates you enjoy intimacy, -and the idea of love- far too much.

 

And that's one of the nicer things about you.

 

-Rio

 

Oh blah.

 

I'm not concerned whether it's *nice* or not... I don't think of myself as a *nice* person anyway.

 

Look, all I'm doing is just giving back to the world what it has given me. After years of being dumped on, teased, mocked, etc. it's now my turn to have some fun. And it is a LOT of fun too!

 

I shut myself away from people IRL the same way that people shut me off in the past. I quit approaching women for anything social... hell, I gave that up long ago.

 

I knew I was losing when I couldn't get *average* women. When it got to the point of not even being able to *score* with those women that are deemed *unattractive* or downright *ugly* by society I knew that I had lost the war. so I decided to just say *beep* it and keep to myself and not approach anyone. Period.

 

The way I see it, it is much better to be approached. That way, I will know without any doubt that they are genuinely interested in me because, god knows, it would take a lot for a woman to approach me just by seeing me and any woman who does that is certainly entitled to have a chance. I don't reject anyone.